It was absolutely insane. I've never been "that guy" at a party unless I was hosting it myself but last Saturday I took this house by storm. Before Saturday I hadn't gotten laid since Halloween and even then it was from some slut who ran out of my bed WHILE I WAS HAVING SEX WITH HER because some other dude called her. Had another bad experience with a girl I really liked where she invited me over on MY BIRTHDAY and instead of hanging out with my buddies I sashay over there with baked goods and her favorite alcohol, which she promptly took from me the second I walk in the door and shoves me towards the other 20 other scrubs she had over at her place. Needless to say, I was in bad shape.

Needing some guidance I spent a lot of time on /r/askmen where of course the infamous /r/theredpill keeps being mentioned. Eventually I checked you guys out and found this subreddit to be exponentially more valuable. I've been lurking and soaking up wisdom for the last few weeks and finally got to put everything into action this weekend. Let me tell you guys if any of you have doubts about RP wisdom, especially any college guys like myself, this shit works.

This is kind of long but literally I couldn't go 5 minutes without some RP nugget being proven true. Some notable examples:

  • Drunk girl slips and falls in the corner. Old me would have rushed over and asked if she was okay, maybe bring her a cup of water so she could sober up. In fact, that's what a few other guys were doing. Instead I immediately walk over and lift her straight off the ground and set her on her feet without saying a word and turn around and leave before her or her friends can even say anything. Then while her friends are trying to take her home and these guys are trying to offer her help, she comes up to ME and gives me her number. The best part was watching every other girl in sight swoon when I picked her up.

  • Two typical party sluts (with bangin bodies, I'll give them that) are waltzing through the room getting real close to guys, waiting for them to get excited/start to grind on them/make conversation before laughing at them and walking away. Eventually they come my way and walk directly between me and my buddy while we're trying to talk. We were in the back corner away from everything so clearly this was intentional. I'm not having it and immediately I put my hand up and say excuse me with an annoyed expression, which was 100% the truth since I wasn't interested in their nonsense. Right away these girls are shocked but impressed too and one straight up says "Wait, I like this one he's cool." They try to stick around to talk but like I said I was with my buddy and wasn't interested. The one who spoke up kept following me around all night.

  • I had my own handle of alcohol at the party. When this super attractive girl asks if she can have a shot. I pour her one and say "You got it sweetheart." just out of habit. Immediately I get the whole "Do NOT call me sweetheart, you're a pig, blah blah feminist bullshit." So I just say "Whatever, bitch" down the shot and just walk away. I didn't see the point in sticking around and letting her abuse me verbally. Later on she finds me and tries to apologize for "being so mean earlier".

  • Was talking with some dudes and this one white girl around the keg when it came up in conversation that I wasn't super into white girls. Immediately you could see the "challenge accepted" look in her eyes. For the next hour or so she kept trying to get me to make a move on her: grinding on me, squeezing my arms, rubbing my tattoos, etc. with me only giving her the minimum amount of attention. Eventually she drops that she actually lives in the house and she wants to show me her bedroom. Even in my blue pill days it would have been hard to fuck up that kind of move. We're heading to her room when she insists on talking to some friend of hers. Instead of sitting around with my thumb up my ass waiting for her to finish I just toss her over my shoulder and head upstairs. After sex is over she wanted me to do something or other but the party was still on in full force and my buddy was downstairs so I was out the door before she even got her panties on. Didn't bother getting her number but she sent me a FB message yesterday.

  • Gorgeous girl I was trying to talk to on Thursday was not receptive at all. She walks through the front door right as I'm hauling the other girl upstairs and you could literally see her gears spinning. Preselection at work!!! After I slept with the girl I was only downstairs for 30 seconds before she grabs me by the hand for shots and dancing and ten minutes later we're making out.

  • Stunning half-asian cutie is literally the belle of the ball at this party. Every guy there is all over her. Me and my buddy are just goofing off when she comes over. Clearly our script was to drop everything and immediately introduce ourselves/offer her drinks. Instead I just look her straight in the eyes and keep talking with my buddy (who already knew her). Eventually the wait becomes too much for her and she coughs loudly and nudges my buddy who then introduces her to me. We talk for a little bit and she's wearing a low back dress and she has some strange tattoo on her lower back. I ask her what it means and she says she'll tell us after she takes this beer pong shot. I wasn't going to wait around while she flirted around so me and my buddy leave her corner and go dance. Meanwhile every guy at that party keeps hitting on her and showering her with drinks and attention. We make eye contact a few times but I don't do anything more than nod at her. Towards the end of the night me and my buddy are about to leave when she comes running at me and asks why I left before she could finish talking about her tattoo. I look at her like the dumbass she is and tell her clearly that when she went to go play beer pong the conversation ended. I tell her we're going back to our place and she can come along if she really wants to talk about her tattoo. Conversation with her was pretty vapid but we get back to our place and eventually I seal the deal.

This party really opened my eyes to a lot of RP truths. There's no feeling better than ending a dry spell and I went from 5 months of no action to fucking 2 beautiful girls in one night. Of course there were the right mix of conditions/rules in place for me to maintain frame and not give a single fuck.

  1. I was visiting the East Coast from LA and Saturday was my last night in town. I'm probably never going to see any of those people ever again which meant there were little to no repercussions. Not to mention I'm strange/out-of-town dick.

  2. I was visiting my best friend who goes to school there so throughout the night I had the mindset that my enjoyment and hanging out with him was paramount and girls would be secondary.

  3. Respect the house, but do not take shit from anyone. When one guy started threatening me I told him we could go outside right then but if not he was just wasting air, with the mentality that I was totally ready to throw down if necessary. NOT ADVOCATING STARTING FIGHTS!! But if someone throws the first punch you had better throw the last one. He backed down immediately and I could feel everyone's opinion of me grow.

  4. I'm 6'3" 210lbs, tatted up with a nose ring. Definitely a huge departure from the usual East coast guy at that party. I don't think I would have gotten away with as much as I did if I wasn't in shape. I definitely had the alpha look even if I was a beta shit just a few months ago. But let that be a lesson that it doesn't matter how big and strong you are if you don't respect yourself, women will not either and you will get nowhere. Also another bonus is that my size lets me drink plenty and get reasonably drunk/loose without being sloppy or blacking out.

But Saturday night definitely was not all perfect. A lot of shit went down and definitely if this was a group of my friends/a place I was invested in I would not have gone as crazy as I did.

  • Most of the guys at the party HATED me by the end of the night, with the exceptions being guys I knew or had talked to/befriended before I started making moves on girls. The host especially was pissed off at me because he had been hitting on the mixed girl. Not necessarily too many white knights/feminists coming out of the walls (definitely a bigger problem in LA) but by nature this kind of behavior will not endear you to many people.
  • You CAN'T be too hard on some girls. I suppose it's better to be too bold rather than not bold at all but in one case I made a girl cry and definitely blew any chances I may have had with her. I think some subtlety definitely works when it's needed and that's something I definitely need to work on.
  • Similarly, I definitely turned off plenty of girls too. The F5 hurricane antics I was pulling on Saturday are definitely effective but might not work on specific girls. It's more like casting out a net and picking out which fish you like best. You might not get the one you're really looking for.

Sorry about the length of this post but I really wanted to share my experience and thank each and every one of you for my new outlook on life. I can't wait to keep improving! I just wish I found out about this place back when I was a freshman.