TL;DR Screen or vet the shit out of her if you are thinking about marriage

I got married on Friday. Wife broke down Sunday and admitted her dyslexia is worse than she told me in he past. She struggles to read

Must have been awkward reading of the vows

Herpes. Wish I was kidding. Found out from her obstetrician when she was six months pregnant and we went in for an appointment and his first question to her was, "How's the herpes, any flare ups?"

Here's your marriage license and here's your Valtrex

she told her sister that she only married me because she knew I'd be a stable provider and father, not because she loved me.

It wasn't until after we married that she told me that her and her two brothers had a very fulfilling sexual relationship through out their childhood

that she had been engaged exclusively in homosexual relationships before we met.

Women in these situations never seem to have dated just one gay guy

The fact that she's an anxious, neurotic mess. I had no idea. She seemed so chill before we got married. Still, once that ring was on her finger, the truth came out in her behavior

My spouse [wife] came out as trans 3 months after we got married

Not sure how you miss the boat on that one

My wife was actually 7 years older than she claimed to be...it wasn't just done for vanity or to deceive me

"it wasn't done to deceive me"

She was HIV positive

I still don't know how many guys she slept with other than it was over 30

she was a pothead, was quite fond of cocaine and was a little...er...promiscuous

That she was completely 'vanilla' sexually and very low libido. And so that interesting sex we used to have and talk about regularly, turns out it was mostly her playing along. It quickly became plain sex, and then that became apologies

And on and on and on...

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