Read the entire post @ The Family Alpha: https://thefamilyalpha.com/2015/12/30/creating-your-slut/

Disclaimer: I have been hesitant to publish this post as what I am recommending is strictly for those guys who are fully unplugged, recognize the female imperative in our society, understand the complexity of the attack on masculinity, as well as having allowed the Red Pill to fully dissolve. If you are on the fence about TRP or find yourself aligned with the ‘Blue/Purple’ crowd, this post is 100% NOT for you.

The Family Alpha just entered year #2 this October, it was created by me for married men who are looking to reclaim or maintain their masculinity while being married in our weaksauce society and under the conditions of Marriage 2.0. I never have the intention of providing advice that will lead men to imploding their marriage, but this post covers a topic that if not properly understood and applied by masculine men, could do exactly that.

Once you ‘unleash the beast’ that is your wife’s inner whore, there’s no way to turn it off. As you open her mind to getting that kind of attention from you, having her freely expressing her sexual desires and fantasies, and getting her to being DTF whenever, wherever, and however - you have essentially eliminated the possibility of things ever going back to how they used to be.

You will never again be allowed to return to your ‘bluepill’ ways as she simply won’t allow it. If you pull the feminine energy and vitality that is your wife from the deepest parts of what makes her ‘tick’, it is now your responsibility to be the man who is leading her and setting the standard from which all other men will be measured, forever.

Masculinity begets femininity, like a yin yang – if you fuck your role up and become a weak dude, she will come at you with some next level ferocity as she is now accustomed to your masculine ways and will e looking for you to maintain them.

As long as you remain on point, things will be fine and you will have the exact sex life you want. But if you slip back to your old ways she is going to turn to a man who will satisfy this new craving that you have created. Once she has that taste and feels that it’s ok to let loose, she will desire raw masculine power and want to get tossed around and physically satisfied.

I had a discussion with one of the moderators on MRP about whether a woman gets turned on by men or whether she is always ‘horny’ the way men are. We pondered whether they feel that way yet only show it when around true masculine energy. It’s an interesting concept and one that I am finding more and more likely as I talk with guys and examine my wife. It seems that they like sex just as much as we do and whereas I used to think they used it only as a tool for securing a high value man or provider (or in some cases gifts/money) it seems to be more probable that when they are around a ‘real’ masculine man (alpha), they want to fuck him just as much as he wants to fuck her.

In marriage it’s not so much so that she can gain something or secure him, (as she already has him) but rather because her feminine energy is pulled to that masculine energy and she knows that around this manly man, she can be her pure feminine self, to include being horny & sexually open. As long as you remain unpredictable, she’ll always be aware of that constant dread and in turn will maintain the standard you’ve set.

It is up to you, the man in the relationship to create an environment that allows your woman to be her dirty, slutty, nasty self. You know exactly what I mean, no man wants to marry or date a whore, but every man wants his wife to perform like one.

He wants her to be his little slut and do all the things he has seen in porn, thought up in his mind, and desired in secret for too long. Married men not only want her perform these acts, but more importantly they want her to genuinely WANT to do these things to her man.

The amount of effort required to achieve this standard in your marriage varies on the type of relationship you currently have. This is The Family Alpha, so I’m going to cater my message to the married man. Keeping that in mind, there are some aspects of this post that can be used on LTRs and girlfriends. It’s actually much easier to do this with LTRs(0-2 years) and Girlfriends because you don’t have that long term bond/knowledge of one another, things are new and new is sexy.

Where a married man may try and get anal for the first time from his wife after 5 years of marriage, a dude with a girlfriend can try it on week 2, or in a LTR after 4 months of ‘dating’. The major difference is that the girlfriend may think he has always been like this and just waited to tell her. The wife on the other hand, she has to face the fact that this is either her husband wanting something new that he saw or heard about somewhere, or he is changing, which is something women do not like.

Prior to getting into the actual How To you need to keep in mind that - Your Mileage May Vary.

Your wife is different than mine and she is different than your buddies. AWALT still applies, yet differently. You must cater your approach to what will work best for your wife.

You need to know that your wife is capable of being your slut. Remove the idea that my wife just isn’t into any of that. She certainly has it in her. Whether she was your slut before you got complacent as a man or maybe you’re trying to get it out of her for the first time, it makes no difference in which elements are needed to get the slut out of her. The steps you have to take are the same.

Let’s not forget to mention the elephant in the room. She may have been some dudes little fuck toy before you and if she loved to role play for him and won’t wear lingerie for you, you’re the issue. If you need any more proof of this, read Rollo’s post: Saving the Best

For a few guys out there, reading that post is going to hit too close to home. To them I say this: if you decided to forgive your wife’s whore past, then you must let it go.

You absolutely cannot expect your wife to fuck you a certain way just because she fucked somebody else like that. That’s not how this works. You aren’t going to be given anything as she doesn’t owe you shit.

What I’m suggesting and the advice I’m offering here is for you to pull that slut out by being a man who gets women to do whatever is necessary to keep her focused on him. A high value man with options is one who is going to have a wife who is his slut.

The actions you take and environment you foster in your family dictates the type of sex you’re getting. Want better sex? Create a better environment.

Back to her past before we get too far of topic. She fucked that other dude and became his sex puppet because he earned it. He ‘earned’ it through his game, kino, alpha behavior, what the fuck ever…he did something that brought out her slut ways. You can too, as long as you are doing it for you and not because you feel she owes it to you. That underlying tone of butt-hurt will bleed through your behaviors and will be detrimental to any course of action you take. Attraction is non-negotiable, you need to kill your ego and recognize that you will get your wife’s best when make her feel she has to give it.

Ultimately, at that point she’ll want to give it to you because you’ll have made yourself a high value & highly sought after man.

There are three areas that require your direct attention and effort in order to get the slut out of your wife.

  • You

  • Removing the ‘Taboo’ associated with discussing sex

  • Fostering an environment that promotes the growth of sexual attraction and freedom

You

Rule 1: Be Attractive.

Rule 2: Don’t be Unattractive

Again, “Attraction is NON Negotiable.” if your wife is not attracted to you, she is simply not going to go out of her way and her comfort zone to satisfy your needs. She might love freaky sex, but if the tingles aren’t generated by your actions then it’s not going to happen. It’s not your personality that does it for her, it’s not just your physique that does it for her either (though I’d rank physique above personality on what matters). It’s you as a whole.

When I say you need to work on YOU what I mean is the overall attributes that make you who you are. Your sense of ‘self’ if you will. Physically, mentally, spiritually, professionally, your kino, your game, teasing her, laying active/passive dread, all of it combined is what I’m talking about.

Physically

Are you rocking a Dadbod? If so, you’re off to a poor start. Do you really think your wife should be giving you her all sexually when you can’t even take care of yourself? She does not fuck you because of your ‘winning personality’. Even your amazing ‘charm’ and ‘suave nature’ are not going to get the tingles burning hot when the shirt comes off. You need to get your physical fitness and nutrition dialed in.

Here’s a quick test to see if you’re where you need to be in regards to your physique:

At this very moment, can you take your shirt off and have a conversation with that hot girl you like comfortably? If not, you aren’t there yet.

I’m not saying you need to be sub 10% bf (though I recommend never going above 15%) what I am saying is that your body needs to be on point, period. If you don’t have visible muscles and decent vascularity, you simply aren’t reaching your potential as a man and therefore your woman is not reaching her potential sexually with you.

Myself, along with two or three other guys on the Married Red Pill subreddit believe that all(98%) of the blame and responsibility lays with the husband. It is up to you to fix this and whether you feel that is fair or not is irrelevant. If you want your wife to be your little slut, then you’re going to have to put in the work, so just do it - or don’t. But, if you don’t you can no longer say you want the most from your wife because you clearly aren’t willing to get the most from your self.

Mentally

Are you displaying that irrational sense of self confidence that is mentioned in The Sixteen Commandments of Poon? If not, you need to be as she has to know that you are 100% committed to this lifestyle and support the message that you’re sending. She needs to be comfortable with allowing you to see into the dark recesses of her mind.

She’s been taught from birth by our society that woman are not supposed to act a certain way. Even with the more open levels of hypergamy that are being displayed, woman aren’t supposed to want to fuck, simple as that. I’ve never taken a class or had an educator say that all women think about is sex. I’ve had it drilled into my head that this is all men think about, usually making it a negative (along with all things masculine) but never females.

This is why she needs you to be a fucking mentally strong fortress, your mind can’t be shaken by her shit tests, challenges from others, or have any other cracks in your mental foundation. It is this fortitude of the mind that will allow her to trust you enough to let her open up and tell you exactly what it is she wants, thinks, feels, & desires…

I’ve done this with my wife and it all started with me gaining her trust and her truly believing that I had the mental capacity to take what she was saying and not make it a joke but rather absorb her message and satisfy her desire. I also had to show that I had the confidence and belief that I could do whatever it was she was asking and that in turn she would submit to any request that I made of her.

Spiritually

I’m not using the term ‘spiritual’ in any sort of religious aspect. When I say that you need to work on the spiritual aspect of your sense of self what I mean is that internal ‘spark’ that exists in every person. That intangible thing that draws you to your wife and her to you.

What you need to do is to relay the message to your wife that by removing the stigma of sex that you two will become closer. You need to let her know that the marriage will improve, that both of you will experience a greater satisfaction from your life, and that the result of an uninhibited sex life will bring you two together on a level that you’ve never reached before.

Make her feel what you’re saying.

When you are able to take your ‘mask’ off and show someone who you truly are you develop a bond that cannot be created in any other way. If your wife tells you that she has always wanted to be tied up and fucked in the ass while you call her your skank will you look at her differently?

If you have the mental strength I previously touched on then she might tell you something crazy like this. If she does and you’re able to hear her out, not make a joke of it, and understand that this is what she wants from you. Then you actually deliver, you will be closer to her than you ever could have any other way.

This is what I mean by spiritual. Your wife can tell you all of the dirty thoughts she has kept to herself for so long, afraid of judgement and ridicule. But you, her husband, are able to handle it. That is going to translate to confirming her belief and support of your role as the Family Alpha.

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