Edit: Added a few more details under each relevant point so it's as beginner friendly and coherent as possible. Essentially in any interaction concerning sexual intimacy, you should aim for a "it just happened" sort of thing, this works best by far
This is my first ever post as a way of giving back to the community and reporting what I've learned and found what works best. You can check your strengths and weaknesses and know what to improve/how to cater your game, an example is I need to be less of a douchebag and not fail every comfort test that goes my way. This is my first and potentially only post on the sub so hopefully it provides valuable insight despite it being obvious and whatnot
Definition: Never sleep with a coworker/someone closely associated with your work. I believe girls in the same apartment are fine so long as you watch your back and stay safe, someone in one of your university classes too so long as you approach cautiously. Fellow gym members is a risk, only ever approach the ones that give you strong and plenty IOIs, don't approach the girls that don't. Ever. Basically don't sleep with someone you work often with/around or gym girls that focus on their own thing and don't want to be bothered
This one should be engraved into your mind. It's never worth it, don't fucking do it. It's strongly advised against for good reason. Mixing pleasure and business is not a good idea since she may cause drama or try and fuck you over on your job. Too many risks for the payoff to ever be worth it
Definition of trying hard: Sexually escalating and trying it by moving too fast, attempting in short intervals and giving attention regularly. It's cool and all to be direct although if you just make it sex-based she won't cave. Trying hard at first is well paired up with getting yourself into a true "don't give a fuck" mood later on, they find that so so sexy, though it's very hard to get put into that mood. Only ever happened to me three times and no clue what caused it
From a post I read before and from what I've seen, girls love it when you look like you live your life with or without them and you can live with them not putting out for you. I've been on both ends with the same girl, where she told me she started losing interest since I was "trying too hard" to me then just genuinely not giving a fuck and it worked out perfectly for me. "Flow like water", don't let a woman be a dam you go out of your way to find and push over
Anyone who's spent a minute on this sub knows this is one of the cornerstones of the sexual strategy aspect of RP. It's not fun for anyone and a complete turn off. Women desire a man who does his own thing and who countless other women desire and talk about. If you do get needy occupy yourself, you're a grown ass man you got shit to do instead of gazing at the stars wondering "What could have been" or picking flowers while muttering "She loves me, she loves me not". If any of you kill yourselves over a girl I will personally travel to the afterlife, pull your ass back into the realm of the living and knock some fucking sense into you. Oneitis is a debilitating condition that throws anyone off their game. You need to shut that shit down, even if it's a slight "she's not like other girls". This also has to do with my point on never settling. More on that later
Girls always try and rattle up suspicion or jealousy/envy in a man to keep them on their dog leash. It's one of their stupid covert games, don't fall for it. You shouldn't ever care. In a high school class my (BP) friend told me "Man I just heard the girls talking about how they send pics of guys in our class to guys in their contacts list to make them jealous". I just laughed at him while they were around us and said "You have so much to learn". Ended up getting spammed by texts from a girl trying to get my attention which they noticed and started eyefucking me ever since. Poetic
Frame. Frame frame frame. Breathe frame, be frame, live frame. This is perhaps the most potent and powerful tool in your arsenal. If a guy wants to get into a fight, as Sun Tzu said, "The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting.". Don't ever get mad at a girl or anyone, you look like a childish idiot and she dries up like the Sahara desert. Fun fact, every girl I know who's boyfriend did something along the lines of "She has a man now" broke up after a week max. It shows insecurity and women can gauge insecurity like sharks can smell blood in the water
- Never Be Too Much of A Dick
I really wish I listened and reflected more when I read about comfort tests on here. You need to be able to identify and relate a girl's emotions to game her at your maximum potential. Sure some are going to go for you since you're a complete douchebag though those girls are the less sought after. Charm is the right amount of comedy, mystery, interest and teasing. Do too much of a god thing and it creates an imbalance, in this case teasing. You need to give her an emotional roller coaster of ups and downs, but do too many downs and the ride shuts down
- Never Be An Emotional Tampon
Girls always have options no matter what for "nice" listeners. You can hear her out from time to time although set boundaries to know what you're about. If any of you have a hard time remaining distant think of it this way: if you won't be her emotional tampon someone else will. And she sure as fuck won't be banging the emotional tampon
- Never Take Things Personally
Girls are more scared of rejection than guys, it's why they rarely approach and none can game. It's one small meaningless interaction that could result in you knocking boots or a confidence boost exercise. If she bails, just understand what her nature is and it's not you, it's her. This is including and not limited to; flaking, playing games, shit testing. Not taking things personally also helps with the abundance mentality and DGAF attitude
- Never Be Afraid of Taking Risks
Also great life advice for success. Similar to previous point however I know damn well I don't want to live with any regrets in life so I'll take the harmless risk of approaching and seeing how it goes. Best case scenario: Plate or whatever you're looking for Worse case scenario: Rejection. Despite this you still get out of your comfort zone, ergo improving nonetheless
What I mean by this is you don't want to ask questions such as "Want to meet up at this park at a time?" or "What's your favourite 11th century artpiece". Questions are fine and such but don't overdo it. However, you should never ever ask, you must always command (this does not include sex). Setting logistics especially. Standard of her "where are we eating" or "I'm free Friday" is you replying with "I know this great Chinese place. I'll pick you up at 8" or "Let's do a park walk at 6PM Friday" respectively. I found that using my ending cold approach line to "Let's exchange numbers, I'll take yours" works perfectly as it's friendly, a suggestion into a leading command and makes you look like you know what you're doing. I highly suggest implementing it if you have not already
If you're seeing red flags galore or feel like you're in the house from Poltergeist, abandon ship. If you sense somethings off or you shouldn't push then don't. Trust your gut. You'll know the difference between butterflies in your stomach to "some kind of fuckery is going on here". This point also includes the voice inside your head like "Don't text her again man, it's only been a day". Last point is a good example of betraying your senses
"When you settle you get what you settled for" -A guy who's name I forgot. You need to keep up your standards since mentality makes all the difference and once you start caving in to the occasional Miss McDonalds or Mrs. Human Potato Head since you've been having a "dry spell" then numerous problems will arise. Don't do it, only fuck who you believe you should be fucking (while also having major self confidence to uphold high standards). It's principles, it's self discipline and self control. It's right
- Never Game, Let Alone Fuck a Bipolar Girl
If you want to open Pandora's box on your dick, be my guest. Just remember the phrase "Abandon all hope, ye who enter" when she's starting to flip shit and is a hair strand away from accusing you of abusing her
Symptoms to spot one are listed and not limited to; mood swings, threatening to chop your dick off, screaming and shouting, having the crazy eyes, maniacal laughter
With all that being said, the world is your oyster. Go get 'em Tiger. Good luck and enjoy
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