If there is one thing that has improved my interaction and success with women by 10 fold it was a simple change in my beliefs and therefore my behavior- always assuming attraction.
The moment you begin your interaction with a woman and straight away assume attraction, your whole body language changes, the way you talk, the way you walk and the way you act is on a whole new level. Here are some thoughts.
NEVER assume she doesn't like you until she PHYSICALLY walks away or pushes you away. EVEN if she says she is not into you. If she is still standing there flirting with you, talking to you she is still into you. It is a simple TRP philosophy - never listen to what a girl says, just how she acts. Therefore, whenever you approach a girl, you assume she is into you, until she acts otherwise. When she walks away and you get the point she is not into you, move on.
This mindset will encourage you to ALWAYS be escalating. When you assume a girl is into you, men always escalate because they know she will reciprocate, it's like easy mode. As such, you will be escalating, becoming more physical and this will be working in your favor subconsciously.
STOP OVERTHINKING when you first meet a woman, you are wasting your time. Most guys are super shit at reading women. If history is anything to go by, we are our own worst enemy. How many times have we been told months/years later that the chick we didn't escalate with was into us? Men are shit are reading women, we overthink things and make our lives fucking hard and end up ruining the interaction. It is just easier for us if 100% of the time we assume attraction until otherwise and then we will succeed way more. 99% of the time women don't even know how they are feeling or what they want. Moreover, women are way better at reading men, so put the idea in their mind that they are into you.
I am a true believer that our thoughts become reality if you believe them enough. When you meet a woman, if straight off the bat you believe you are not good enough, and believe she already dislikes you, your thoughts will manifest into reality and your beliefs will come true. You will be nervous, you will feel depressed and sad (she doesn't like me so why bother), you won't flirt (I don't want her to think I am a creep) and basically fuck up the interaction. Likewise, if you meet a woman and straight away believe she is into you, you will be confident, shoulders high, deep voice, become flirtatious with her, be a bit cocky, and straight away she will be receptive with your behavior. (Seriously think about it on a simpler level. You think sad, depressing and negative thoughts, you will hang your head, slump your shoulders and be miserable to everyone around you and everyone around you will feel this. If you are happy, confident and enjoying life, you will walk around with a level of joy on your face, shoulders held high and a skip in your step, and everyone around you will start to feel happy and be happy. We have all been here.)
You start approaching and picking up WAY hotter girls. All of a sudden everyone becomes in your league because pretty much you believe 99% of the girls are into you off the bat. You begin to approach girls who previously you thought were too hot for you and actually end up fucking them because hey, they end up liking you. Girls have the weirdest tastes, and you know what, the tall blonde might be into your brown, asian, black, white, short or tall ass and find you super hot. If you don't assume attraction you will never, EVER have a shot at them. With this mind set, your beliefs will eventually come true.
We on TRP encourage lifting weights, getting fit, getting a nice haircut and wearing good clothes because then it becomes easier to assume attraction. Keep going to the gym, keep lifting weights, always dress good, and it will be easier to believe your own bullshit and assume attraction.
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