Are you busy? What is reading this post distracting you from right now?
Is this just another pit stop on the internet for you? Are you just endlessly surfing the internet and playing video games?
Get busy.
I remember the days when I wasn't busy: desperately trying to suck up to an ex to win her back, flailing in the wind to keep women's attention, swiping desperately on the apps. I would come home, stuff my face with food, sit in front of the TV, surf the internet for hours on end, take a shit, ogle women on social media, try to think of the perfect comment to leave on their post, try to figure out the perfect text message to send that one woman whose number I felt so lucky to get, jerk off, go to bed, work, rinse, wash repeat.
Then I got busy. I have a clear vision in my head of the version of myself I want to become and the life I want to live. It's given me a series of ever branching goals that I chase and build upon. As far as I can see it's going to be never ending and it excites me more than anything else out there.
Now I don't have time to figure out what women are thinking, their intentions, who they are with or what they posted online. I don't have time to send you a "Good morning beautiful" text, 10 other guys already gave you your validation for the day on my behalf. I don't have time to text you back just because you texted me. I'm busy working on something and I won't be distracted.
I don't have time for long elaborate dates. The most I have time for is 1.5 drinks, some light snacks at the bar and a short romantic walk back to my place.
I know what I want and if you:
Don't know what you want? Go home, I'm busy.
Having second thoughts? Go home, I'm busy.
Just want to be friends? Not into you like that. Go home, I'm busy.
Want a pen pal? No time to engage in that. I'm busy.
I stopped having to chase women. They hit me up now to ask for few hours of my time.
Why does it work? Others can weigh in but here is my take:
Supply and demand: Demonstrate that time spent with you is valuable, then by being naturally busy demand will go up.
Busy men get shit done: Busy men working towards something tend to have life made. The busy men bring home food for the tribe, win wars, conquer the world. Busy men win. Who doesn't want to be with a winner?
So I'll ask again: Are you busy?
[–]d3g4d0199 points200 points201 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 64 points65 points66 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Anusunset34 points35 points36 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]Lebrons_runaway_hair48 points49 points50 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Anusunset4 points5 points6 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]kimsinrd1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Anusunset6 points7 points8 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]kimsinrd0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]paul_ernst57 points58 points59 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]urdad_45580 points81 points82 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+][deleted] (3 children) | Copy Link
[deleted]
[–]GarglinMay071 points72 points73 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]corytrevor71045 points46 points47 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Vynxe-Vainglory40 points41 points42 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]NeroNemesis5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]2INNASKILLZ2K185 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Ur_X5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]YronArchibald2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]seemsonormal19792 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]lazydogg92 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]cluelessguitarist1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]kimsinrd1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Snakerspug1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]243dssd1 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Pandufresh0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Balkanskii2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]UberJunkie0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]mickenrorty0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]damienkingston0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Bouttheactivities0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Lefanteriorascencion0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MostSolidFrame0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]CanadianVisionary0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]messermigrant230 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Rakosnik0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]1princeahole0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Mwoods342-1 points0 points1 point (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Lefanteriorascencion3 points4 points5 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[+]solstone109-42 points-41 points-40 points (10 children) | Copy Link
[–]SportyPenis31 points32 points33 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[+]solstone109-11 points-10 points-9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]Hyperf0cus2 points3 points4 points (4 children) | Copy Link
[–]solstone1091 point2 points3 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]intl_plyrs_clb[S] 2 points3 points4 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]solstone1090 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]solstone1090 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link