I was responding to this post (which was getting upvotes)
I can see why someone would say that interpretation of feminism by certain people who claim to be feminists can undermine heterosexual relationships in general.
What we have:
certain feminists get it wrong
certain non-feminists get an impression that above group represents feminism accurately
"normal", " majority" feminists and non-feminists get sucked into this drama for no reason.
there doesn't seem to be anything here