Help with Wife

starista · 2016-05-08T06:34:03+00:00

Many men go through a phase where their shitty wives disgust them.

But, just remember, she's shitty because you let her be. You have failed to enforce boundaries and lead your household.

I'd recommend trying to make mrp work for your marriage for 6 months and see if you get past the anger phase, and if she's receptive to your changes.

Just remember, while saving the marriage is a nice bonus, you are doing all of this FOR YOU!

BluepillProfessor · 2016-05-08T14:18:40+00:00

I need a macro. Do not make decisions like this while you are in the anger stage. Give your wife a chance to catch up.

So no,you should not dump a wife of decades based on what you describe.

sh0ckley · 2016-05-08T14:02:16+00:00

It's your choice, but I'm young and my wounds are still open, and I can tell you now that if your kid loves with you guys, don't fucking divorce her.

My parents separated when I was 9, stayed in the same house to raise me for all of 3 weeks, it got ugly, officially got divorced, legal system granted full custody to my mom even though she didn't want to isolate my dad and I, he ended up moving 800 miles away.

I saw him once or twice a year and then got into drugs when I was 12 years old, cut him off, OD'd a couple times, fucked up an LTR, and went to rehab.

I'm now 18, I talk to him every day and see him around every month. I missed out on years with my pops and looking back on it, I didn't have a strong male role model and it changed my path in life heavily. I wasn't old enough to seek one out, and I can tell you that if I could change one thing in my life, that would be it.

I'd advise not divorcing her and giving her some time, but really man, part of this whole redpill shit is taking responsibility for your own actions. You had a kid, you're liable for it, for better or for worse, until it's 18. If you opt for a legal divorce, you won't be capable of seeing it.

I know sociopaths and psychopaths who are capable of love so I damn well believe your dumb ass is, stick it out for your kid who I'm sure you love, at least until they're ~18-21

MRPguy · 2016-05-08T04:27:11+00:00

Bro, do not come here asking us whether or not you should leave your wife. It's your fucking life!

We don't know you. We are internet strangers. Could you leave her? Sure. It's always a possibility, always an option. Only you can make that call.

redpillthrowaway3242 · 2016-05-08T05:04:44+00:00

Fair enough and good point. Looking for validation on an internet forum is a cop out. Any choice I make I need to own.

2016-05-08T14:06:30+00:00

My take: this post is dumb. You are likely also dumb. It is dumb that your wife is jealous that you can grow a beard. Any advice you get from this post will likely be dumb. The information you provided is so limited that it is dumb to offer you any response other than to tell you this is dumb.

Big_Daddy_PDX · 2016-05-08T07:23:12+00:00

You've seen some great personal success so keep focused there. It's telling that your wife is hamstring because of your results. Keep the throttle on, maintain your frame, and be true to yourself. At some point she'll make the decision for you based on her actions. All you need to do is be clear and direct Wilsonville your expectations. She'll either come around or continue to resist. Then you'll have to be a man and make the choice for you.

sexyshoulderdevil · 2016-05-09T00:06:44+00:00

Is she hot? I'm collecting other dudes' wives and building a harem. Give me her stats and then I'll let you know if you should divorce her. I'm in need of a brunette so I'll definitely be more agreeable to your divorce if she fits the bill. Cool...

its-iceman · 2016-05-08T12:14:41+00:00

Do you think the personality change has more to do with MRP than the TRT?

Increased test can definitely change how you act and react, just like any hormone could.

2016-05-09T07:26:05+00:00

However, I'm thinking about leaving because I'm getting tired of the drama all the time.

you still sound lazy and entitled beacuse this may be the easiest thing to fix.

ReddJive · 2016-05-08T12:16:55+00:00

Get divorced. It's obvious she's the problem.

OP even said she's jealous she can't grow a beard!! What more proof is there.

Look OP, you're tired of her bullshit. I'm pretty sure she's tired of yours.

cj_aubrey · 2016-05-08T13:15:30+00:00

Ask a clear question and we'll try to answer it.

Title	Help with Wife
Author	redpillthrowaway3242
Upvotes	8
Comments	27
Date	May 8, 2016 3:42 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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