Married 7 years. Together for 15.
Sex is starfish. If I don't initiate, there won't be any sex (until she wants a kid, when she suddenly rips my clothes off to fuck).
My job is solid, my body is solid (have always lifted hard, squat/dead/bench are strong, 6 pack, etc.
My wife wants another kid. Now. Once she got pregnant, we had sex 3 times during the pregnancy. We have had it four times since she had the baby nine months ago. All starfish except the last time, where I knew she was trying to butter me up for "I want another one."
What's my next move? Last time, I told her I wouldn't get her pregnant until she worked on her attitude toward sex. That ended up just prolonging things (three years) and I finally gave in. I'm not going to this time.
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