I'm new to red pill. I'm lifting, working the sidebar, and agree with a good chunk of what you guys say. But I married my high school sweetheart, and as far as I'm concerned, owning my shit means sticking to it. Divorce is off the table unless she starts fucking someone else. I made a commitment for life. I'm owning it. Also I made a monogamous commitment for life. I'm owning that too. While I like the self- discipline aspect and consistent self improvement, as well as learning masculinity in a feminine world, the cheating and divorce encouragement is pretty rampant. It doesn't jive with my Christian values. Am I wasting all of our time on here?