Cold shutdown

FereallyRed · 2019-05-19T13:02:21+00:00

Just because you can call your woman a dirty cunt and piss on her face during a raunchy session doesn't mean that dynamic translates to when you are both in a home remortgage meeting at the bank.

Calibration.

[deleted] · 2019-05-19T11:44:23+00:00

Could be several things, what's ok in the heat of the moment might embarrass her in light of day. It's the difference in setting down over coffee and asking her thoughts on getting a thumb up her ass, and just sliding one in when your fucking her while shes on all fours. One requires logic to process the other is lizard brain pleasure sensing. Dont over think this.

SBIII · 2019-05-19T10:47:20+00:00

What happened here? What dynamic am I missing? Did I get too beta after sex? Should I remain colder? Could she have some insecurities about sex that she doesn't want me to even subtly reference it outside the bedroom?

Why do you care?

Spend more time fucking her brains out than trying to fuck with her brain.

hack3ge · 2019-05-19T11:45:48+00:00

Wtf is this shit show? If you are going to tease a woman do it because you enjoy it and are having fun not to get a reaction. You have a lot to learn.

into_being · 2019-05-19T10:50:01+00:00

“Good girl” is so vague. She was probably already horny when you said it the first time. Correlation, not causation.

I don’t think you’re going to get much out of just saying “good girl” and expecting tingles. Try being more specific with your feedback, “I love it when you do X.” Or “you look so sexy when X, makes me want to do Y”

Edit: swapped correlation/causation

screechhater · 2019-05-20T00:52:57+00:00

Dumb mother fucker running through the streets with dynamite.

Oh look there is the crack of her ass, plant it there

Tact. Timing. Attractiveness is not a comment or noun poorly timed to sound like vulgarity

simbarlion · 2019-05-19T11:05:15+00:00

You made her uncomfortable either during sex or in the convo after. She shut you down

I don't think it was quite the 'charm' you thought it was.

SMV too low, girlfriend.

Taipanshimshon · 2019-05-19T15:43:43+00:00

Stop thinking. Your brain doesn't work

stoicstephen · 2019-05-19T11:36:24+00:00

What a pity.

You are 100% in her frame.

RedPillCoach · 2019-05-23T16:12:26+00:00

"I'm always a good girl" and immediately changes the topic.

She is embarrassed at being a slutty little girl for you. Dirty talk primarily works when the girl is turned on. If you try it- or sometimes if you even reference it- when she is NOT turned on then she gets embarrassed. It is a dominance trick she is pulling on you. Be submissive and slutty, and then assert your authority and dominance. A dance as old as time.

ChokingDownRP · 2019-05-20T02:21:12+00:00

She probably doesn't even remember you making the comment in the bedroom. Chad says way crazier things to her, your words don't even register on her bad girl scale.

Title	Cold shutdown
Author	Onein1024th
Upvotes	6
Comments	24
Date	May 19, 2019 10:16 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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