I thought I was making progress with the wife the last few months as far as more frequent sex. It’s now been a month since the last time.
We were getting ready to go last week and right before she asks, “why do you think we don’t have sex as much as you’d like?”
My reply, “To be honest, because you’re not attracted to me.”
Her response was that it was definitely not the problem and that she wanted more connection. On my first OYS post a couple weeks ago, someone mentioned connection was tingles. I’m not giving her tingles.
I’m reading the sidebar, back lifting 3x a week, working on not being the Nice Guy, so slowly building the attractiveness.
Has anyone else gone through a similar scenario and what are some ways you brought back that connection/tingles?
Thanks in advance.
TL;DR Wife needs more connection for more sex. How do I help bring back connection?
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