She's a reflection of me

HerukaArisen · 2019-06-15T06:14:34+00:00

There is nothing you can do to make her have sex with you. It's totally up to her. What you can do is make yourself a man women want to have sex with. It's pretty clear you are not such a man. The recipe is the same as with everyone else: sidebar, lift & STFU. What makes you think you and your little (well, large) snowflake are somehow special?

Sepean · 2019-06-15T08:35:01+00:00

So ugly girls wouldn’t fuck hot guys? How are you buying into this stuff?

She won’t fuck you because you’re unattractive. And because you’re autistic I’ll spell it out: being attractive requires frame, game and looks.

One, stop listening to your wife. She doesn’t say anything that will help you, your relationship or her, on the contrary it is all deception meant to make you more beta.

Two, STFU, don’t talk to her about this. It sounds like you’re asking her why she won’t fuck you, ffs dude there’s a sidebar here, read it instead.

Third, stop thinking you have do something to her or for her. Just develop your frame, game and looks.

SBIII · 2019-06-15T11:28:25+00:00

You started posting here two years ago but you're still a clueless fucktard who doses himself with adderal and numbs himself with alcohol.

The only thing you got right is that she IS a reflection of you... a lazy, fat cunt who refuses to put any effort in but expects to get results.

See you in another two years. Keep us posted on your lack of progress.

RedPill-BlackLotus · 2019-06-15T08:10:27+00:00

she isn't comfortable with the way she looks

she's a reflection of me...

I didnt see shit in your post about lifting.

What kind of condition are you in?

I wouldn't want to fuck you either.

UrsanChief · 2019-06-15T09:49:33+00:00

You don't lead her, you lead you. If she follows, cool. If not, cool.

Have you ever seen your kids pester your wife for a treat or a toy? That's what your wife is telling you when she says you pester her about sex- that you're acting like a child and 1) she absolutely does NOT want to fuck a child and 2) she doesn't need one the pressure of your neediness when she already has kids.

I don't know much about Red Pill, I'm not even quite a year in myself but I can tell you from personal experience, even when I got in better shape, was lifting consistently, taking my kids away, NONE of that mattered while I continued to "need her" for sex. Shut that shit down. Never, ever give her a reason to start articulating OUT LOUD why she isn't fucking you, because once its out in the open it becomes tangible and that shit is dangerous. She probably doesn't need your help reminding her WHY she isn't fucking you.

FoxShitNasty83 · 2019-06-15T06:53:29+00:00

Stop just fucking stop, read it back to yourself. You are exactly like I was/am the last year or so in you are trying to change her! Your mindset is of "if I do MRP then my wife will fuck me". That's a big covert contract right there (I'm guilty of this too). You can't change her, you can only change you. She is the center of your world you need to become your own center. Read no more Mr nice guy and when I say no I feel guilty over and over again. You need to be in a place were you don't need her in your life. Start doing shit for you, golf, Jujitsu, lifting weights, what hobbies will get you out? What do you want to do? Build a life without her in it take ownership of everything in your life, the house, bins empty, kids, set some simple boundries a recent one of mine is "I don't have to do things people ask me if I don't want to, I also have the right to laugh and completely refuse if people aren't even curtious or show a basic level of manners" it's a boundary I can defend easily by not doing what the person wants. Start posting in oys weekly. Learn to fog and negative enquiry it will change the way you communicate with you wife. You will find this all very uncomfortable but it will get easier. Look out for the anger and STFU wherever you can.

Stop trying to fix her, I also got the "you pester me for sex talk". Your basically coming across as needy pawing at mummy for sex. It's not attractive, back off and reduce your initiations. Become physically attractive to all women. Lift at least 3 times a week. Also how do you initiate sex?

Take all of this with a pinch of salt, I'm working this shit out but it's easier to see this behaviour in your words than it is to see in myself.

Two_kids_in_a_coat · 2019-06-15T12:30:10+00:00

Are you a man she wants to fuck? Stats?

UnlimitedEgo · 2019-06-15T13:12:38+00:00

So back to the title of this post - she's a reflection of me... I've fallen off the boat of red pill several times for several reasons which ultimately go back to me being a faggot... Drunk captain, DEER expert.

How the hell do you fall off? This is a serious question. I don’t understand how it’s possible if you’re lifting and have read TRM or MMSLP how someone can ever go back to “blue pill ways”. What’s your rationale why this is ok?

Also, you’re unattractive that’s why your wife won’t fuck you. Her fat flaky ass would fuck Chad no problem.

SorcererKing · 2019-06-16T01:40:09+00:00

Tallies: 362 total words.

She - 17 (5%)
Her - 11 (3%)
Herself - 1 (0%)

Autism level: 100%

helaughsinhidden · 2019-06-15T15:48:53+00:00

1000 ft rope and you work the levels of dread in order. No one goes 0 to 100 mph, it takes time to internalize change effectively and authentically. A huge mistake would be skipping right to level 10 or higher before you've put in the work and time.

ReddJive · 2019-06-15T19:39:02+00:00

Your actions prove who you are.

Your words prove who you pretend to be.

BobbyPeru · 2019-06-15T16:20:38+00:00

You are bullshitting yourself. Quit the drugs and alcohol and get to work. Next thing you know 10 years have gone by, and you’re still a faggot

BedroomFixer · 2019-06-15T16:13:08+00:00

I haven't read all the comments, but I've read enough to know that this sounds like it's been going on for a while now.

BOTH of you need to work on yourselves, as well as do something to grow together.

How open to working on your marriage are you? Pre-frame : it's going to require a serious conversation with your wife. If you're up for it, and short term uncomfortability is worth it, then I have some suggestions.

UnlimitedEgo · 2019-06-15T18:47:02+00:00

screechhater · 2019-06-15T20:54:56+00:00

Go after what you really want and stop letting others convince you of a different direction.

Dread.

Lift. Arms. Pecs. Quads. Takes time and consistency

Big_Daddy_PDX · 2019-06-15T22:15:58+00:00

You can’t motivate someone to want to do something if they don’t want to. You slowly keep adding dread until either she breaks and comes into line or you break and pull the divorce cord.

BluepillProfessor · 2019-06-21T15:34:55+00:00

she isn't comfortable with the way she looks (overweight and psoriasis

If that is the REAL reason, push through and screw her anyway. While she is blathering on about how she is not comfortable with her body ignore, put your hand over her mouth and whisper in her ear how much you want to fuck her. Tell her to shut up.

If she responds with passion then she is telling you the truth and only needed a little body positivity and a man with a strong frame.

More likely she is totally full of shit and hamstering like crazy why she is not attracted to her husband.

framelessglasses · 2019-06-16T02:23:34+00:00

You are the definition of a troll.

You are wasting the time of these men that actually care about the manosphere. You are just feeding your bottomless need for attention.

Attention whores like you, can just get fucked.

SBIII · 2019-06-15T11:56:33+00:00

Maybe she *does* want to have sex with you, she just doesn't feel comfortable because of her self esteem issues. Look on the bright side, if she didn't like you one bit she wouldn't care about your opinion of her body.

Title	She's a reflection of me
Author	UnlimitedEgo
Upvotes	13
Comments	61
Date	June 15, 2019 5:57 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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