We used to have time for sex after the kids went to bed, but the oldest now stays up almost as late as my wife, and it is really cutting into the frequency of the quality sessions. Keeping my wife up later isn't really an option, she's an early riser and her next day is pretty much ruined if she stays up past 10.
So with 3 kids (ages 1, 8 and 10), there's never a free moment.
The only solution I can see is that we just have to tell our 10 year old that we're going to bed early or something and locking the door (there's even a dressing room before the bedroom so no listening directly at the door). He's probably smart enough to realize what is going on, but he's at the age were sex (even kissing) really grosses him out. Does anyone have experience how to handle a preteen with this?
Any other tips for creating time and space for sex?
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