I used to love my wife or 6 years very much. She was my dream girl. But once we got married she changed. She became more serious, cared about dollars and cents, wants to have spreadsheets, savings 401k all the serious boring stuff.

She was always unhappy and stressed out out. She would complain about how I didn’t make enough money, I wasn’t am ambitious and serious enough. She would always compare me to her best friends husband who is a small business owner and makes millions. My presents weren’t good enough for her, I was too unsophisticated etc.

Her friends started having kids. I wanted to have kids too but she said we didn’t have enough money saved to think about it.

We also lived in a dead bedroom. I was sick of watching porn.

It wore me down. It destroyed my self esteem, A few months back I went out with my buddies and a girl started chatting me up, We exchanges numbers. We started texting and eventually met up for drinks, It felt so good to have a woman give me attention and show me that I am desirable. We had sex. After that I kept going out and was surprised at being successful with women.

Needless to say I have been seeing multiple women over the past few months. I am now not in love with my wife. I know what it feels like to be desired and respected. I don’t want to go back to my old marriage. She knows something is up and all I can do is avoid her. I don’t even feel bad. How do I get out?