Running MAP on peri menopausal or menopausal women

2ndal · 2020-01-06T16:40:56+00:00

A MAP is an action plan to turn you into a worthwhile man of substance. How your wife responds has no affect on turning yourself into a man of substance--it runs in parallel to whatever another person decides to do or not do, your wife included. Your wife may respond, or she may not. In the end you turn into a worthwhile man of substance regardless.

justpickanyusername · 2020-01-06T16:55:11+00:00

Running MAP on peri menopausal or menopausal women

Your title tells me all I need to know. You have made your wife your mission. That's not how it works fucktard. Go back to the beginning and start over.

man_in_the_world · 2020-01-06T18:39:19+00:00

Women may choose to have sex with a desirable man for some personal combination of one or more reasons, including

hormone driven libido
validation
mate retention
mate competition
emotional intimacy with a partner
to make a baby

Even with some attractions in play, most women will not voluntarily have sex with someone who displays unattractive characteristics; even a horny woman will choose to go home alone rather than fuck an undesirable man.

Menopause doesn't change these redpill truths about a woman's sexual attraction and desire, but it often reduces or removes many of her motivations for desiring or choosing sex. The hormonal shifts of menopause may affect each woman differently, but usually reduces or kills her hormone-based libido; pregnancy is also completely out; greater emotional maturity with age or hormonal shifts may reduce her desire for external validation through sex or to compete for mates.

Redpill methods for increasing desire remain the same, but typically have reduced effect with a menopaused woman, while unattractive behaviors that turn off her sexual interest remain in full force. So the effectiveness of various improvements or techniques may shift, a higher level of performance might be required, and the desire they produce might be reduced, but I can assure you from personal experience that the red pill still holds true for post-menopausal women.

So if you're foolishly pursuing a "Dancing Monkey" Attraction Improvement MAP, or if menopausal plates are your target demographic, emphasize 'not being unattractive', and the attraction triggers still relevant to menopausal women. Unfortunately for you, a Dancing Monkey plan rules out most of those (mate competition and retention; polarization and boldness in playing with her emotions) so good luck with that.

InChargeMan · 2020-01-06T17:10:40+00:00

I don't have an answer to this, but as a pro-tip you should probably start preparing some other excuses to ask MRP about once you are done riding this wave of validation.

Some ideas:

Can't get fit due to low T
Wife is bipolar
Dry vagina
ED due to excessive alpha
Big boned/endomorph
Childhood trauma/ptsd
BPA in plastic bottles

This is just a start to get you rolling, I'm sure you can think of more. Good luck!

hack3ge · 2020-01-07T01:58:27+00:00

Congratulations you are officially now in the running for faggot of the 2020.

The sooner you recognize the woman you call your wife is completely irrelevant the sooner you will find what you seek.

redditguy61 · 2020-01-07T02:28:42+00:00

Find two 24 year olds. Fuck them.

ImNotSlash · 2020-01-06T17:20:58+00:00

As Steel says, you're doing it wrong.

BTW, you're wrong. Figure it out.

SBIII · 2020-01-06T16:41:23+00:00

If you are running your MAP to see how your wife responds and she's not responding due to the menopause, you need to hit the PM button hard.

If that doesn't work, hit it harder.

If that doesn't work, hit it with a hammer.

If that fails, press the Green Button. It's beside the Yellow Button.

red-sfpplus · 2020-01-06T18:41:51+00:00

All the HVM in this age bracket have wives on female TRT.

She will make zero excuse for anything if you are High Value.

HeckleandChide · 2020-01-07T01:02:22+00:00

Your contract isn't even covert. It's like a gigantic blinking neon sign over your head anytime your wife looks at you.

How attractive.

2020-01-07T03:47:27+00:00

I concur with what the other comments say about your wife not being your mission. Also, at 51, my wife's biological libido is not what it used to be. As I have followed the MRP path quietly and not ramboing, she has gotten to where she likes to shag on most days. There's no guarantees, wives vary all over the place in how they respond to a man's MAP. That's why we say to focus on improving your SMV and defining a mission that speaks to what you want. Your wife may or may not follow. There are some older members on here such as u/man_in_the_world that I follow for how MRP works on older women.

SBIII · 2020-01-06T17:47:32+00:00

I was with a woman recently who was menopausal.

She also tasted extremely nice. Her skin had an unusual taste and was actually spicy.

I called her my peri peri menopausal plate.

Maximus_Valerius · 2020-01-06T18:04:21+00:00

My wife is 50 and menopausal/peri menopausal. I’ve been running my MAP just fine.

Why are you concerned about your wife’s response?

Brothervoliver2 · 2020-01-06T20:25:01+00:00

I appreciate all the feedback, even the harsh ones. I just didn’t want to write her off too soon (Bluepill covers this in his book) for this or other reasons if things are about to really get good. I am at the gym 4 days a week and do cardio 7 days a week. I am down 40 lbs, fit, getting preselection hits, flirting with her and others while in front of her, making myself scarce at home, etc. all the things red pill. No covert contracts, expressing sexual needs and not getting turned down. Sex is on average 2x per week (non period week). Getting handies and BJs sporadically during Shark Week. Things are on the right path and I am not stopping. I just wondered if anyone had had any experiences with PM stalling their MAP process. That’s all. I will keep pressing forward to Phase 5 indefinitely and see if I can reach it with her. If not, I know I will be in a much better place for whatever happens.

Title	Running MAP on peri menopausal or menopausal women
Author	Brothervoliver2
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Comments	44
Date	January 6, 2020 3:50 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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