RP that somehow became BP

RStonePT · 2020-06-26T12:10:25+00:00

"used to he Alpha slowly became beta" is a meme at this point

You're not special, work is over there ➡️

Also, for your specific point, practical female psychology writes about the betaization process

SorcererKing · 2020-06-26T15:07:34+00:00

Start here: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/acvzgx/steels_guide_to_married_red_pill/

Idigabighole · 2020-06-25T23:45:57+00:00

Just to clarify im new af at this. I dont know what the sidebar is and I just made a Reddit account today.

SBIII · 2020-06-26T17:38:31+00:00

That's one fucking long ass way of asking where the sidebar is.

tightsleeves · 2020-06-26T12:56:18+00:00

Figure out how to find the sidebar and there is a list of books to read, read them all.. more than once.

The most important thing to remember is that this isn't a fast process; reading and learning this is eye opening and even if you make the changes today it will take a while before the results are felt. Kind of like when you start lifting weights...

broneilbro · 2020-06-26T15:46:15+00:00

Woof...welcome to the gang. I guess over time for me it was complacency and just the planted idea that one should be comfortable with their lives and yet its the complete opposite. The issue is society wants little to no chaos and true change.

The reason for that is when you open your eyes to the fact that you have been "misguided" your entire life it causes you to question the system and that system does not like that.

The system of society wants you to be a sheep and never say no to accepting a subpar life. You ever wonder why society says "His mid life crisis" when guys like us wake up one day and say "Fuck it, time to change" and yet with women its "Finding herself" or some eat pray love bullshit?

Read my previous posts within here and you will see what I mean.

VictorERink · 2020-06-26T13:15:35+00:00

Most of the people who comment on these sections think it’s cool to treat you like they’re your drill sergeant. It was nice seeing somebody come into this sub without all of the assholery.

JCX_Pulse · 2020-06-26T19:55:37+00:00

Her lack of sexual interest in you got you here.

The reading will help get you started, but the practical application of what you learn is how you will influence change.

A key aspect of MRP is to do this for you. You don’t like who you are now, even if the sexless marriage helped you see that, don’t let that be your measure of success. Find congruence with yourself, your goals, your mission, your expectations of yourself, so that if you find she doesn’t change you are happy enough with who you are to leave and find someone new.

Join in on OYS to track your progress as well.

DuffBude · 2020-06-26T15:31:18+00:00

Side bar and posts the others have linked. The first red pill book I read was When I Say No, I Feel Guilty. I didn't think the title applied to me before I started reading. It was a game changer.

Idigabighole · 2020-06-26T20:53:31+00:00

Read the intro. Bought all the pre-reqs. A lot of work in front of me, but the resources are there. I like the way shits being laid out here.

Idigabighole · 2020-06-28T21:22:34+00:00

Quick ask before I go back into STFU. Reading through NMMNG and the author recommends getting my SO to read the book as well. Is this wise considering how early in the game I am?

MrTrizzles · 2020-06-26T16:50:25+00:00

Nice try. You already know what you need to do. Let me refresh your memory:

Did my thing. Lived my life. Hobbies. Education. Career building.

You’re here looking for a shortcut. Some easier way of being a man. Some internet tricks or tips to get you there faster.

Sorry, brother, but there’s no shortcuts. I don’t blame you for looking for an easy way out, but you’ve no options here except to put the work in. Now kick that lazy attitude out for good and get to it.

She wants to make you her world. Give her a world worth being a part of. She’ll get wet just thinking about it.

Title	RP that somehow became BP
Author	Idigabighole
Upvotes	12
Comments	46
Date	June 25, 2020 11:42 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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