As my SMV is increasing, why are betas getting more aggressive?

newls · 2018-04-09T14:17:04+00:00

A guy in my social circle admitted to purposefully not inviting me to a party somewhere once because there were chicks there and "no one likes another dick trying to hang around".

Fucking loser mentality. Although he's still in my social circle, I don't consider him a friend and never invite him anywhere anymore. It's funny to hear him bitch about it in our group chat. Also, I never once cockblocked this kid so all this insecurity is all in his head.

Guys who feel threatened like that by other men are pathetic. Don't ever form a tight friendship with losers like that.

Hudini15 · 2018-04-09T05:09:07+00:00

I see this here all the time.

Having a bit of red or black next to your name makes you a target for little dogs to bark at, to prove to the other little dogs they aren't afraid.

Big dogs let little dogs bark because barking is all they can do.

Let them bark. Find amusement at the idiocy.

Amused mastery... anything outside your frame is funny at best, everything inside your frame you have mastery of.

All normal.

Tallcrab poppybuckets.

BlackMisc · 2018-04-09T08:14:17+00:00

the beta boys see the threat you impose on their sexual narative. As soon as they see females warming up 2 you and not them they get confronted with reality and this hurts to them. Some aggresive beta males will try to undermine every move you make.

Get used to it

PhaedrusHunt · 2018-04-09T05:57:03+00:00

Your introduction to small man syndrome. You're a crab closer to the top of the bucket.

As fast as low SMV women-- you're out of their league and they feel unattractive.

Beautiful women are generally also more pleasant for this reason-- they're more relaxed.

mcr00sterdota · 2018-04-09T09:04:52+00:00

Crabs in the bucket mentality.

veritasredd · 2018-04-09T13:14:04+00:00

This is normal. This also happened to me, beta males tried to drag me down, is passive aggressive towards me and many more beta bullshits(read my post if you want to know). Just ignore them or banish them from your environment if it's possible.

karkyflarky · 2018-04-09T12:12:22+00:00

Normal behaviour. Watch a wild life documentary and watch the alpha of the heard have to fight the feeling lucky punk beta. As a human in a society with laws you will be challenged verbally and in body language instead of physically fighting.

valerioluc · 2018-04-09T08:57:56+00:00

Same its true for me, i can live with it. Women idk, they are all more interested, others just dont even try because they know im out of their league.

Martysteiner · 2018-04-09T10:21:18+00:00

As you named it:Betas!

Your SMV is higher than their emotional influence, as they compare.

Pretty much all of us lived & experienced this. You should be going your own way. This will drive them more and more crazy.

And you know what, it's like a comparison between muscle and fat. Both makes you look bigger, but we all know which one people prefer rather than other one.

Arhamzubair · 2018-04-09T12:10:03+00:00

The real story here is you increased your SMV to make betas take notice. Ignore them...

OR

Take up a martial art to make yourself been safer (if that's a concern)

Kennigmatic · 2018-04-10T03:58:12+00:00

Kill them with kindness bro.

I despise males like that. Literally feel a fiery rage for that kinda behavior from other dudes, but I keep frame and brush it off.

Stay in your own lane, keep improving. It’s probably gonna get worse before it gets better.

Zech4riah · 2018-04-09T11:53:13+00:00

You can be high SMV guy with traits which intimidate guys (physical apperance, frame, dominant ja self-confident gaze) or you can be high SMV with traits which don't intimidate guys.

You may have attractive 6-pack and chlised jawline, but if you haven't packed enough muscle, you look a bit weak. Among guys, bulked up/jacked dudes really get the respect from other men and no betas challenge them.

It isn't necessarily your increased SMV - it's just that you lost your size when you cut down 30 lbs and you look physically weaker (even tho more attractive to the girls).

And generally I have no same experience than you do so maybe there is something sketchy in your frame and you aren't authentic.

EDIT:

but the alpha male and cuter girls are more receptive.

Actually this part contradicts my previous comment. If that is how alphas and cuter girls treat you, then you frame should be ok. Maybe It's all about the intimidation factor which you are missing.

UncleWarwick · 2018-04-09T06:22:56+00:00

Eh, you might be doing it wrong then. You also might be happening upon all the insecure people at once.

As my SMV has been increasing, EVERYONE has been more receptive towards me.

mrpoopistan · 2018-04-09T16:44:46+00:00

Your mistake is seeing alpha-beta as a dominant-submissive divide. It's not. In fact, some of the nastiest rage in the world is beta rage.

Human beings tear each other down. The distinction is that the highest status people don't have to play that game. Mind you, many do. But there's a difference between wanting to playing it having to play it.

JStambler · 2018-04-09T17:38:15+00:00

Why worry about it? That is their anguish, not yours.

Thunderfin · 2018-09-06T04:29:33+00:00

No, you're beta.

i_Hate_us · 2018-04-09T15:27:39+00:00

I think you might just be a dick, increasing your smv isn’t just about your shape or looks, also how you make people feel towards you.

melonsle · 2018-04-09T22:50:31+00:00

holy shit if you think you can look at other dudes and divide them into alpha and beta you are so fucked in the head its no surprise if others dudes feel your weird-ass judgmental and negative vibes.

Title	As my SMV is increasing, why are betas getting more aggressive?
Author	Kionjabb
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Date	April 9, 2018 4:48 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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