I was in an LTR for 12 years (yeah, yeah I know), started applying RP for the past two years after separating. I've learned a lot and had decent luck with women. I've fucked about 25 girls, and have had spans of having 2-3 plates.

I've gone on a couple of dates the past few weeks and just feel bored with it. I'm horny, they're attractive, but I just feel numb with going through the motions. When I think about the (even minimal) effort to get them into bed I just reach this conclusion: I'd rather be doing something else. Studying. Working out. Learning something new.

When I first separated with the ex, taking off a new girls' panties was like smoking crack. I was addicted. But I'm at a point where I have a visceral reaction to listening to stupid shit just to get my dick wet. It's almost painful.

The obvious conclusion is, "So? Don't fuck women for a while". But I just wanted to hear your thoughts, especially if I should be gaming girls during this time, or fully focus on other things.