My identical twin brother age 21 for reference lives with me in a 2 bedroom apt. He doesn't work, collects employment assistance, smokes weed, and plays games 7 days a week.
I have completely immersed myself in TRP a while ago selling my gaming PC to get a laptop for work, reading theory and philosophy, and breaking up with my overweight LTR of 4 years.
The problem is this guy literally hasn't done laundry in 3 months, eats my food I buy for myself, refuses to do any dishes, sleeps in until 4pm.. the list goes on.
I would just kick him out to my parents, but the problem is they don't live in the same province as me, and he has nowhere to go. I cant just kick him out to the streets he is my brother, but he is hindering not only my personal success, but my success with women as I cant bring them back to a shit hole with a sloth of a brother hanging around.
I have tried everything to get him motivated, but he gets "anxiety attacks" when he works, and will just sleep instead of clean. There is no amount of anger in the world that will get this guy moving.
Any advice on how to handle this situation would be appreciated. (On mobile format is probably shit)
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