How to make a threesome happen?

Snowboard18 · 2019-10-01T13:27:52+00:00

Shit I’d probably just ask her, tell her to bring her girlfriend over for wine at your place

ComplexProjection · 2019-10-01T14:09:02+00:00

Threesome are my thing, so I have plenty of feedback. The easiest, surest way to do it is to bring 2 girls you are already sexually active with at your place. Don’t tell them the details, don’t even mention there will be another girl. You want them to come with a mindset of going to yours to fuck. Then some alcohol, escalation and questions like « did you ever kiss another girl? ». Base your approach on the bisexual girl, she will help you.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-10-01T17:47:55+00:00

If only there was a sidebar...

Uncle Vasya's Guide To Threesomes

-When It Comes To Head, Two Heads Are Better Than One

WolfofAllStreetz · 2019-10-01T17:49:13+00:00

(posted this previously in another thread about this, figure this applies mostly)

This is a complicated question because we don't know you or this girl. Girls are a big talk when it comes to this shit (see: bar-sexual) and can your girl handle watching you fuck another female is the real question. Not many girls can.

If you think she is going to be OK with it, and not have a meltdown during the activity if you actually pull this shit off (which is harder than it looks because a lot of girls don't want to be a "third") then press on.

I've had a bunch of threesomes with my girl (MRP guy here) and we actually dated a girl together last year for a few months. My wife is bisexual so it's a little easier on my end but you can still fuck this up.

Best way to accomplish this is having her hunt/lead which is akward for most girls since they have no clue how to game. This is what I learned muddying through these waters. Girls aren't programmed to know how to game men so when you have two girls trying to figure out logistics it's like two monkeys fucking a football. She has to seem like the one who wants it when you are approaching or talking with girls at clubs and bars. Alchohol helps here but not too much since the intended target might bail or get too drunk to actually do anything. You can also go the app route with her making a Tinder profile as a girl, seeking girls but Tinder is now saturated with couples it seems. (see: unicorn hunters). Make sure theres a photo of both of you in there so it's not a bait and switch for anyone interested. Just note you will waste a lot of time on Tinder because most girls match, don't reply or flake on an actual meetup and want to just chat as girls are orbiters hunters by nature. Another option is subtly dropping hints to her friends while you are drinking. Have you girl kino women. It's not hard.

So if you actually make it to the bedroom with two girls whatever the fuck you do you need to focus on your OWN GIRL MOSTLY. Let the other two play with eachother etc. You can fuck this up easily and then the whole thing blows up and now your girl is mad at you and you blew your opportunities for good. Me and my girl never had a problem but I knew what to do before I made it to the game so it helped. We still bang girls together but be forewarned it's hard to go back to normal sex once you open pandoras box.

Vasilly has a good guide on this as well.

warthundersfw · 2019-10-01T13:59:37+00:00

Ask her if she's ever been in one. If she's interested. She might not do it with her partner, but find another girl. I find girls that are curious about it make the best +1 because they WANT to try it.

silent_dominant · 2019-10-01T15:16:47+00:00

Pay 2 hookers

MotiMorphosys · 2019-10-01T16:23:11+00:00

I've never had a threesome but I've had the framework laid out a few times.

I'm super curious and plan to try ComplexProjection's recommendation. I have thoughts on why it won't work but I've never tried it so I can't say shit.

I have had multiple girls literally tell me that they are open to a threesome as long as the other girl is someone that they don't know and they meet the other girl for drinks or something and aren't weirded-out. every time I have pushed this further, I have showed pictures of the other girl to one of the girls when I'm with her and I have never had both girls beforehand see the other girl and agree to meet. But I would imagine that's how it goes for most people.

But I've never done it. That's all I got.

Whisper · 2019-10-01T20:31:11+00:00

She then goes on to tell me she’s bisexual and in an open lesbian relationship.

She would not have brought that up for no reason. So she's thinking what you're thinking.

Next time you arrange to take her out, express some interest in meeting her girlfriend. Get the two of them together with you in the same room. Involve alcohol. Run game.

Shouldn't be too hard.

Kn31 · 2019-10-01T17:46:13+00:00

It's the same as core rp approach. You make her think it's her idea. Every time I suggest it, it's a no. When I get the girl to say she wants it. it has happened. You're in a goooood spot Bc she seems down. Ime they always had that "friend"

throaway69404 · 2019-10-01T16:32:36+00:00

Get your best mates to agree to it with your wife

kheitba · 2019-10-01T16:38:38+00:00

Invite me over

Sendmeloveletters · 2019-10-01T16:51:08+00:00

Take her out and ask her which girls she thinks are cute and tell her it would be fun to pick up a chick together.

Sendmeloveletters · 2019-10-01T16:57:01+00:00

“Dual Induction Massage” as one of my friends will always say

WestCoastSaint · 2019-10-01T17:39:39+00:00

Google "dual induction massage routine"

-ThePathIsTheGoal- · 2019-10-01T21:33:09+00:00

Do you know what the other chick looks like? She might be a rugged butch. You better get some pictures of her first lol

PolesWithGoals · 2019-10-02T00:31:03+00:00

Niiiiiiiiiice plate, proceed

[deleted] · 2019-10-02T06:22:50+00:00

I do it it works

MattyAnon · 2019-10-02T16:32:00+00:00

She then goes on to tell me she’s bisexual and in an open lesbian relationship.

great

Edit: She said her and her girlfriend don’t tell each other about the other people they hook up with

Have you met the other girl?

No matter. Have fun with this girl, fuck her casually. After sex casually ask if she'd like to meet other girls you know.

Or... ask if she wants to go hunting with you sometime.

Whatever you do, don't try and get into her existing relationship. It should be you bringing the value, not trying to leech off hers.

besurks · 2019-10-01T16:29:06+00:00

Invite her over with her girlfriend or another girl. Mix alcohol together and make sure they’re both having a good time. And then the threesome is easily secured. Source: I’ve had a couple of threesomes. This is what I’ve done

Kabuki431 · 2019-10-01T19:23:37+00:00

3sum are over rated. Its good to get it out of way

sebastianconcept · 2019-10-01T15:36:05+00:00

Have great sex with her first. Once you’re comfortable talking dirty make her horny and do the inception of the idea. Maybe asking her if she can imagine her and her friend using you as their toy.

Title	How to make a threesome happen?
Author	mcl116
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Date	October 1, 2019 1:15 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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