Has anyone had it just click after enough time reading TRP and side bar material ? I have been posting in here for a round a year now and if you can see my back history its pretty fucking pathetic. After discovering Models by Mark Manson something finally clicked in my head. I wasn't living honestly to myself and my own needs. This was reflected in my shitty LTR/LDR. I was wasting my time and her time and it was 100% my fault. I finished the book and I immediately got in contact with her, told her the relationship was a sham and let her know it needed to end. There were some difficult but necessary things to address but ultimately I'm starting to feel better already. I feel like I can be ME again.