Is it normal that I am extremely turned on by the fact I am my gf's first?

Blue-Raft · 2020-02-01T07:57:43+00:00

It’s what we all wish we could have. There’s not one guy on the planet that would pick a girl who’s been with 20 guys over a girl who’s been with none in terms of an LTR.

Fuck all that blue pill shit saying N count doesn’t matter, of course it matters. Chicks know it matters or else they wouldn’t be downplaying their number when asked what it is.

Gr33d3ater · 2020-02-01T07:20:59+00:00

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PhaedrusHunt · 2020-02-01T12:35:14+00:00

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mksu711 · 2020-02-01T13:58:16+00:00

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partiallypretentious · 2020-02-01T10:11:15+00:00

If you’re the first, then you definitely won’t be the last

Joey_Lopez · 2020-02-01T07:53:56+00:00

Congrats bro. You are my hero for the new year 🎉👍💪

Youngyoda89 · 2020-02-01T08:02:24+00:00

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dani098 · 2020-02-01T14:37:55+00:00

I ve Heard this lie before. It was a girl telling everybody at a table that she was waiting for marriage as she sat beside. her fiancé.

I was fucking her and fuck her several times prior. Shame

Terminal-Psychosis · 2020-02-01T07:28:01+00:00

I think it’s normal to feel the way that you, but I also don’t think it’s something that we should let ourselves get too excited about. Being a virgin doesn’t make someone more trust worthy or a better person. I mean if it helps get your dick hard and nothing more than that, I wouldn’t worry about it. It’s like having a friend who has got a lot of money and nice things. Are you their friend because they have nice things, or because you enjoy your relationship with them?

liquidocean · 2020-02-01T14:07:25+00:00

what makes you believe her?

319Skew · 2020-02-01T11:33:16+00:00

There are a lot of guys responding here that are very confused about blue pilled thinking.

I'll probably be downvoted or insulted by most ignorant guys but the answer is this type of thinking is not harmless.

There are two schools of thought. The guys that are looking for a LTR and value a low or no N count woman due to the fact that it's a good green flag and the guys that don't care because they aren't looking to settle down.

Regardless of which camp you are in, it's an ego thing and being someone's first may make YOU fall into a trap of oneitus and putting her on a pedestal.

Let it turn you on and enjoy it but realize that when you step back and see the forest from the trees that it all matters as much or as little as you choose to make it and that investing heavily into that novelty is as blue pilled AF.

WiterS2 · 2020-02-01T16:42:57+00:00

If you enjoy it, there is no reason to take a pleasure away.

Virgins don't know how to behave in bed, but they love to be taught, and is a pleasure to train them.

Removing n-count judgment only helps when doing pick up. Is better to not be judgmental about sex, because it hinders you.

But it doesn't means that you should't appreciate virginity.

The problem with women's n-counts, is that a woman always wants something equal or better than she had in the past, and you will never be the best on all; the wittiest, richest, most popular, entertaining, artistically gifted, god in bed, most muscular, tallest, handsomest, and all the things she had in the past, at once. The highest her n-count, the less attachment she will have to you. She will always think of you as lesser in some aspects, and it means that she will be more prone to monkey branching. Even if you still are the best she can get, she will keep cheating to test new waters.

With a virgin, you are the best she ever had.

BlackMonkey14 · 2020-02-01T17:15:30+00:00

Well it means she’s potentially wife material which is very rare in English speaking and white countries, so yea pretty normal. It’s the best predictor of a relationship lasting.

Just don’t let it hold you hostage.

ArnoldT1000 · 2020-02-01T09:07:17+00:00

Sounds like oneitis

AceMav21 · 2020-02-01T11:22:29+00:00

Is it normal to be a virgin ass nigga at 22?

PiperBigBell · 2020-02-01T14:38:34+00:00

That's just your ego trying to make you feel like the man for fulfilling your biological role in optimal conditions. The book sperm wars talks about how men and women sniff and taste each other's genital to test if anyone else has been there, so they know how hard they have to fuck to compete with either giving sperm or receiving sperm (having thin cervical mucus in the vagina).

Virgins however don't turn me on. They can't fuck. Too much work training them. They have all these weird sex beliefs. They're goofy and awkward. Look man don't let your ego convince you of something you're not. While you are her frame of reference, now you've given her the confidence to leave.

Besee27 · 2020-02-01T08:24:16+00:00

Lmfao, so she’s a virgin because she told you she’s a virgin?

Damn y’all are gullible lmfao

tom-anonymous · 2020-02-01T16:35:20+00:00

You are the first of many cocks that will be inside that girl. Congrats!

MVWeiss · 2020-02-01T08:13:22+00:00

Yah

Everyone wanna come first, no one tryna come second

Going down is a submissive act, however at as far as you know you won’t be tasting any other guy’s jizz

omlaule · 2020-02-01T16:56:35+00:00

Why are men so obsessed with virgins. I for one would rather have a partner who knows what they are doing which usually comes from experience.

Title	Is it normal that I am extremely turned on by the fact I am my gf's first?
Author	mksu711
Upvotes	85
Comments	54
Date	February 1, 2020 7:03 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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