I had a conversation with my LTR and she told me that if the moment is right and she's heated up for a girl, she'd definitely have sex with her because it's just experimenting and not really cheating. It might be a great revelation to be honest because it could lead to a lot of sexual experiences which I want.
But I realized I have done a horrible job at vetting her. I realize she can be a great fuckbody now, but she's nowhere near an LTR material. The fact that I really do have to tell her that it is cheating, what else is there that I need to tell her that is not wrong or "cheating"?
What do you think about demoting someone like this? She'll probably not be okay with me plating her and will break, but it's either she'll be a plate or nothing for me.
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i'd keep the relationship as long as she's holding up her end in other ways and meeting guidelines
Any of those 3 rules gets broken though, instant demotion.
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Haha, yeah I see it how it is. I will just tell her it's okay to be experimenting now and demote her.
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Yeah, she's at that age. She's not at fault thinking what she's thinking, rather I am at fault for getting in a relationship.
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The fuck is up with TRP being a bunch of insecure bitches these days? It blows my mind how they take a shit on the concept of mate-guarding but they'll do the mate guard on steroids themselves.
OP, maximise your opportunities. Ask yourself, is your girl being into bikini bizkits really a bad thing?
Best case scenario, you expand your harem. Worst case scenario, she leaves you for Butchess, the Bearded Clam Destroyer at which point you have some introspection to do about the state of your relationship in the first place.
Either ways, it's no use mate guarding her, especially from girls. She wants to experiment, let her.
Because if not, it shows. The insecurity shows.
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It's a chick, my man! If she wants to fuck a chick, it's cool in my books and I couldn't care any less. I'm guessing OP couldn't care any less either.
I don't know about you guys, but hitting your girlfriend on the head with a Bible everytime she shows her knees is not strong foundations for an LTR.
Being in an LTR means having fun with a person you can trust.
Besides, like I said, the insecurity shows: More so to the girl in the LTR, than any of us guys that would fuck the girl in a heartbeat.
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I agree with you. I already told her that I wouldn't have something like that. You think just saying it popped in my head again, and letting her know it's okay for her to experiment?
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Be cool about it. Say something like
Then let her know you're cool with her experimenting. Slowly escalate with asking her how it's going, all the way to getting in on the action.
Most importantly, enjoy your relationship bro. Long term relationships are not supposed to be a marathon on eggshells with constant vigilance.
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I see. Don't you think that'll make me in a weaker spot though? Allowing something like that to happen, can lead her to think I am not really firm with what I say and stuff like that.
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What you should be sick of is the "it's just your turn" trope. Agree that a girl isn't yours, but if you're the prize you won't have this mindset. Flip it around; if you're a high value male she's lucky to get a shot with you.
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Why isn't it "just their turn?" You're ignoring the essence of my argument. I'm not saying a man should expect anything other than AWALT, but the idea that we're "lucky" to have the chance to spend time with a girl is just idiotic. They want a prize male next to them just as much as we want a tight pussy next to us. Don't deny nature but don't deny that they can be the lucky one just as much as you can.
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What do you mean?
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You know the thing is, after I told her that I do consider it cheating. She said that she never looked at it from my perspective, and now she understands and would never do it. Which made me just question her honesty even more.
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