In the Book of Pook, he talks about how charm is treating women like little girls. He says to take a girls hand and lead her places, be physical with her, make fun of her etc. As someone that is very straightforward and logical in my communication I've found the verbal/teasing part of this to be difficult to implement. Even with guys, some of my friends have told me that I seem a bit stiff/serious when I talk. This could be because I have a bit of a monotone voice and am not very expressive when I talk. How can I learn to be more relaxed and humorous? I just read another post on the main TRP sub about a guy that teased women, made fun of them, made them laugh, etc. I think having this playful attitude communicates a power dynamic; If you're willing to be playful and make fun of women you don't put them on a pedestal and value yourself more. For example, if you met Warren Buffet, you wouldn't behave this way with him as you enter his frame rather than him entering yours. How can I learn to tease and be more playful in my communication? Are there any good books on this? I've gone from not being able to initiate conversations/approach to being able to approach and have a normal conversation, but I want to reach the next level of being able to tease and be playful when I speak to women.