I noticed my LTR was starting to get cold. she now take longer time to reply my message, even some times leaves me on read. She now doesn’t try to text me whole day until I initiate the first text message.

It all started last week week Tuesday. No message from her until about 3pm and she sent a GIF with no comment. For the first text of the the day I just felt why couldn’t she put more effort ? At least say Anything. So I didn’t reply back with anything.. just ignored.

No message again from her until about 1:30am when she sent me “I’m going to sleep” I replied “okay goodnight” and that has been all till today, 7days later. She normally visits me every Thursday and we bang or go out together.... but last Thursday she didn’t show up.. and this coming Thursday I’m sure she wound not show up again if I don’t message her.

I know her very well and we’ve been in the relationship for 5 years. I’m not needy but I know she’s gone cold..

A part of me is telling me to text her and other part telling me to just leave her and see where it goes..

Don’t want to say too much but i will appreciate any advice from all you here..