I know, you shouldn't give a fuck. But it still feels weird that they mention it.

I can't tell what their goal is by doing it?

Is it to make me jealous?

If anything it just puts me off and my reaction is always the same, I immediately withdraw attention for a few days because I don't want to think about it. I'll inevitably get horny again and smash but I was wondering what your thoughts are on the matter.

Tldr: title