Who are you?

We are men that subscribe to The Red Pill (TRP) philosophy of sexual strategy, and in particular, applying it in marriage or in Long Term Relationships. This sub was created independently to address the needs of married men to discuss relationships issues. Our approach is different from /r/relationships and /r/deadbedrooms because those don't work. Instead, here we focus on how to become stronger men to lead our marriage and LTRs to happiness.

Isn’t TRP against marriage?

Our goal is to help newly unplugging men trapped in loveless, unhappy, low-sex marriages. By becoming stronger and more assertive men, they can bring a lot of happiness to their marriage and LTRs. We encourage men to grow in those areas before reaching the point to "next that bitch".

I’m new here, where do I start?

We strongly recommend you start reading the sidebar so you understand the concepts and language we use. This post is a good introduction to the jargon.

What can I post?

We expect correct grammar and well-thought out posts. We can’t help much with play-by-plays, but we can help a lot as brotherhood by discussing how to become stronger men in our marriages and LTRs. Our goal is high-quality insightful posts that lead to insightful discussions. If you don't know if your post belongs here, read this post explaining what are good quality posts and what aren't.

How do I post?

We only allow subscribers to participate. Click the subscribe button.

Are women welcomed?

You are welcome to observe. If you post here you are effectively addressing a council of Captains and your tone and content should reflect that fact. For more details, read here. A dedicated subreddit for women looking for advice and self improvement can be found at /r/redpillwomen.

How do I get flair?

Go to the main MRP page, find your name on the sidebar, click "edit", choose your flair.

Are you thinking about divorcing her?

Read this first about when to know it is time to Next.

What if I don’t like TRP?

If you don’t like the look or methods of bodybuilders, don’t go to /r/bodybuilding. You have nothing of value to contribute there. Similarly, if you are not interested in our kind of self-improvement, you don’t belong here. If you want to debate TRP, go to /r/purplepilldebate. Repeated offenders will be considered trolls. And if you see a troll, click that report button!