Long story short . Married for 3 years , together for 5. No kids( we choose not to as we love to travel).

Sex before marriage was minimum 3x a week , sometimes twice a session. I worked the graveyard shift. She would sometimes wake me up during my sleep to fuck me. I would even pick her up from work and when we got home she would pull down my pants and say that i have been thinking about this all day.

I even got to the point where i masterbated before i picked her up so i could last longer later in the day.

I never had to ask for sex, it would just happen . For me it was very frequent.

Then we got married and it slowed down. I became irratable and would whine like a bitch. She hated that. I stopped, she hated when i groped her or tried to put my hands down her pants or grab her ass or tits. So i stopped. It got to the point that if she shot me down i would give up and 2 min later she would say to me , why did you stop, you should try harder. Fucking women!!! Then it got to the point where she asked me not to ask for sex for 30 days cuz I was stressing her out. I stopped, did sex improve? Not really, same ole twice a week.

Now it’s if you want to have sex ask . So instead of asking i tell her let's go have sex, if it happens it happens right ?

Now sex has dwindled down to about twice a week, thats about the amount she says yes to. She tells me today that she feels im nagging her cuz basically i try and have sex 5 out of the 7 days.

I have a very high libido, where hers is on the lower side.

She started to try that every Thursday she wants to play a sex board game , which has helped.

The other day i set up the room like a massage parlor, lights, music etc. I told her it would be an erotic massage, all went well had a good time.

Fast forward to now. I started MRP and things improved in the beginning , but again sex has tailed off.

I did not gain weight when we got married or let myself go. In fact got another position at work make more money.

I looked into MRP and improved my diet, working out and clothing. As I have posted before, i look and feel great. I look better than when I did before we met. And we were fucking more beforehand.

Next time she says im nagging i want to bring all this shit up about all the shit she asked me to do, which i did, and sex is the same.

Im at a loss and need some insight