Once again many of you are not researching. You aren't reading sidebar material other then books. So let's discuss one of the most basic principles to Red Pill, MRP or otherwise.

Your time.

The first thing you need to understand is that your time is the only real currency in the world. This is a universal truth. It can never be created. Once you spend it...it's gone. It cannot be saved. It's here and then gone. It is a finite resource that requires your careful attention. Where you spend your time as a man tells the world what you find important. Spend it wisely.

The RP adage is that women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of relationship (time/commitment). It’s also further said that women NEED men but men WANT women. They NEED relationships. We want sex. I get it. You feel that shit in your soul, but bare with me. Consider as part of this paradigm that women can get sex whenever they want it. This then means that even beta men are getting sex. sex is easy. A beta can get a woman to fuck him at least once. It may not be the woman he wants, it may not be the best sex of his life, but he can do it.

The time and commitment for a woman to get a quality relationship is even more rare. Of all the beta men out there, while perhaps good for a one time or twice fuck are not quality enough for a relationship. A woman can fool herself with a beta provider for only so long. Some do it for their whole lives, but the angst they feel manifests in other ways. Time proves this. I am telling you right now once exposed to true masculine/Alpha behavior the bullshit a woman has built up in her life will come crashing down around her. Then you will see her true self. These walls may come back, but they will not be strong, and she will not be the same person. Your time, and ability to create a great relationship is a rare commodity and one you must know in your being you provide. It is defined by your confidence. By your decisiveness and your actions.

Newly unplugging men lately are not using the basic technique of limiting your time and attention to her bad behavior or rejections. Consider this. A woman will tell you she's too tired for sex. That she doesn't have enough time. There was so much overwhelming tasks during that day....I mean putting laundry and dishes in a machine is tough work. Have you ever told her you're too tired for a conversation? That there isn't enough time to get into something. She will still demand and expect that you will be there to hear about her day. That you will still support her, show up on time, do all the things a good man in a relationship does.

Digression: gentlemen, right now disavow yourself of the notion or honor, gallantry, and keeping your word. Unless you explicitly said you would….you didn’t. She may think that you showing up on time is you not keeping your word, but you never said you would. She will manipulate you into thinking that there was an inherent commitment to being honorable, but unless you said it....never happened. Many a man will sacrifice under the illusion of honor and chivalry. Men make sacrifices. No matter how Red Pill you are you do. It’s what men do. It’s our nature. The extent to which you sacrifice and the expectations you have from doing so define your masculinity. Honor is only useful to those that can afford it. They have no emotional attachment to the acts they perform, but they are just as quick to turn it off when presented with a situation where honor is a hinderance. Case in point: the only woman who gets the door held open is the woman i am currently fucking. All others have two hands that aren’t being used. Mine needs her strength.

In martial arts there is a concept called flow. Where the artist moves from technique to technique. A street fighter, while capable, may have only 3-5 techniques that he uses. He puts them on repeat because they have worked for him in the past. He loops them until he wins or doesn't. A martial artists will have many techniques and will flow from one to the next and adapt to the changing situation. This flow, this fluid comes with practice and time. There is no other way. Sure there are naturals that have some level of skill that make it easier for them to learn but they are still beholden to making it work under stressful situations.

The reason most AA AM and LMOP isn't working is because you have no flow. You aren't moving from one to the other and you haven't limited your time. You are just hanging out in the house being a sarcastic asshole, not the fun busy guy that has great quips every now and again.

Here's the rub. The difficult part of putting in the work and time into flirting and escalating with your girl, and still having her reject you brings up those original emotional reactions of anger. I mean you put the time in right? Then you think back to what many of us here are saying and you get angrier still. Problem is you wrote a contract. The key here is that you enjoy that process of flirting. Sure she didn't respond. Smack her ass wink and go back doing something else but enjoy the masculinity that you exuded. You’re the guy that smacks her ass…and in public! The fact that you grabbed a woman's ass, and that you expressed your sexual desires. You made it known. Fuck the world and their conventions. This is your world and you will spend the time and energy the way you see it. They don’t like it. Well….fuck them

You must flow from task to task. She rejects you? happily move on knowing that you have other, and in this case, better options for your time. She is the one that will lose out. She just lost a little bit of access to awesome guy. Now this doesn't mean full on dread where you disappear or go away for days on end. Suddenly cutting her off is butthurt. Dial it back, remove awesome guy for a couple hours. trickle it. Then re-engage. Rejected again? a few more hours still, further and further until many months later you have lost interest in the relationship or her bullshit.

Think of it like this:

Men are in a constant state of earning profit. We want to end our fiscal year in the black. Some of us have multiple gigs/businesses going.

  • Sex maybe earns $10.
  • Certain sexual acts ups the margin. Varies between the man.
  • Supporting your mission in life maybe $20.
  • being supportive $35 per action
  • Doing laundry, cooking, let's say $30 for each time it is done
  • Nag? Complain, be negative all the time then the account losses money to the bank. At three times the rate it went in. (NOTE there is a difference in her coming to you for support and just plain being negative)

At the end of the quarter, fiscal year the man will take an account. If the account is in the black when he makes this assessment he will make a return on that investment. if not...then he looks for other profit centers. Why would a man continue his investment in a profit center that is losing money or a low earner? If he is putting in the time to fix it, to get it to earn again but the maybe the business has run its course. Maybe it was never really a viable idea to begin with. Maybe he is just a bad business man.

As time goes on you will look at that account and wonder why you only accept having $17 for your time and commitment, when you know someone is willing to make a bigger investment. But the man can only do this once he knows his business acumen is solid and proven.