In order to fuck your wife/girlfriend/SO, you must do one very important thing with her.

You have to cuddle.

You have to cuddle with her, let her bury her head in your chest in that sweet spot between you chest, armpit and massive bicep.

You have to hold her back, stroke her hair (from her forehead back), rub her cheek (using the back of your index and middle fingers) and rub her eyebrow.

Her arm should rest across your built chest, and her hand should cup down your opposite side and grab you lat. The arm that is not supporting and caressing her head should be extended above your head as this makes you lat pop out more, which is a good thing.

Your hips should be slightly tilted towards her body. So if she is on your right, your left hip is slightly elevated.

She must feel 100% safe with you, in the clutch of your massive body, safe and secure in order to fuck her.

And did I mention you should under no circumstances, ever have a shirt on during this process?

If you never cuddle with your woman, you will never get fucked.

And I am going to tell you why.

If you do not treat your woman like a woman you will never, ever get to treat her like your little slut.

Under little to no circumstances, should you ever perform cuddles with your woman prior to fucking. Cuddle before Sunday morning sex? That is cool. But we are talking about fucking here, not sex.

The purpose of cuddles, is to remind your woman that you value her a person and not just a fuck toy.

If you do not use your woman as a fuck toy, and only ever cuddle with her, both you and her are missing out on the other 50% of the equation.

If you do not properly cuddle with your woman, after treating her like a slut, she will never feel appreciated the same way, begin to think you only want her to be a slut (no woman wants really be a slut) and she will not respect you.

I am telling you right now. After you are done ravaging your woman, and she is laying there on the bed. Her body covered in your sweat and fluids, legs shaking from whatever, the single best thing you can do at that moment is to get up, start the shower, return to the bed and pick her up like a sack of potatoes (because you fucking lift right faggot?), take her to the shower where you both clean up.

Then return to the bed for cuddles. This is your moment. These are the cuddles that will make your NEXT sex session with her, the next best sex session. Very few things put money in the bank with a woman (see deposits in the bank post) but cuddles after fucking, DO.

This makes her feel safe. It shows her you care, and let me tell you - if you want your woman to fully give herself to you, then you need to fucking listen. She is only going to give herself fully to a man she trusts.

In a proper DOM/SUB relationship (read man/woman) the care of the SUB is the single most important thing the DOM cares about. He takes great pride in the fact his SUB can fully trust and immerse themselves in the release to their DOM. If you do not honor that, and take it is a deep sense of responsibility, then you will never be successful.

So there you have it.

This post is my cuddles post to the group.

I have called you all faggots, I have fucked some members in the ass, throat fucked others, but my time here is just about up.

Keep lifting, keep working on your goals and keep kicking ass. For you fuckers who are just starting out, well don't fucking quit.

Just remember. The only person on this planet that truly gives a fuck about you, is you.

Peace out.