I always worry about the hypergamy in women, theres always a man better than me in every aspect , theres someone more fun more famous more socially cool has more money and nice car and literally have an easy fun type high value life. I always fear of such men in presence of my women i date, i mean as i aware of hypergamy i worry deep inside she wish to date a person like them, also there are limitations to me in some situations cause i dont know some things in life such as high class meals , high class manners in social situations etc, these shortcomings of my self keep me away from dating and make myself doubt. Also as in rational male im not clear of myself what things should i improve, i can improve my physique but i cant improve my personality as a cool bad boy if im not born as one, also i cant be a millionaire overnight and step in to rich world, so what should i do meantime in the process?