What are your thoughts on these statistics? 9 upvotes | September 27, 2022 | by BlindMaestro ------------------------- > Factors found to facilitate infidelity >  >>  Number of sex partners: Greater number of sex partners before >>  marriage predicts infidelity >  > As might be expected, attitudes toward infidelity specifically, > permissive attitudes toward sex more generally and a greater > willingness to have casual sex and to engage in sex without > closeness, commitment or love (i.e., a more unrestricted sociosexual > orientation) are also reliably related to infidelity (pg.71) Fincham, F. D., & May, R. W. (2017). Infidelity in romantic relationships. Current opinion in psychology, 13, 70–74. . > Men apparently assess and evaluate levels of sexual activity by a > woman prior to long-term commitment—behavior that would have been > observable or known through social reputation in the small-group > lifestyles of our ancestors. Past behavior is a good predictor of > future behavior, and having a large number of sex partners prior to > marriage is a statistical predictor of infidelity after marriage > (pg.92) Buss, D. M., & Schmitt, D. P. (2019). Mate preferences and their behavioral manifestations. Annual Review of Psychology, 70, 77–110. . > the odds ratio of 1.13 for lifetime sexual partners obtained with > the face-to-face mode of interview indicates that the probability of > infidelity increased by 13% for every additional lifetime sexual > partner (pg.150) Whisman, M. A., & Snyder, D. K. (2007). Sexual infidelity in a national survey of American women: Differences in prevalence and correlates as a function of method of assessment. Journal of Family Psychology, 21(2), 147–154. . > promiscuity is in fact a good predictor of infidelity. Indeed, > promiscuity among females accounted for almost twice as much > variance in infidelity (r2 = .45) as it did for males (r2 = .25). > (pg.177) Hughes, S. M., & Gallup, G. G., Jr. (2003). Sex differences in morphological predictors of sexual behavior: Shoulder to hip and waist to hip ratios. Evolution and Human Behavior, 24(3), 173–178. . > Each additional sex partner between age 18 and the first union > increased the net odds of infidelity by 1% (pg.56) Treas, J., & Giesen, D. (2000). Sexual Infidelity Among Married and Cohabiting Americans. Journal of Marriage and Family, 62(1), 48–60. . > Sexual promiscuity was significantly positively correlated with > emotional promiscuity [r(356) = .261, p < .001], as well with sexual > infidelity [r(323) = .595, p < .001] and emotional infidelity > [r(323) = .676, p < .001] (pg.390) Pinto, R., & Arantes, J. (2017). The Relationship between Sexual and Emotional Promiscuity and Infidelity. Athens Journal of Social Sciences, 4(4), 385–398. . > Regarding other sexual behaviors, we examined whether number of > prior sex partners and viewing pornography predicted ESI. As has > been found in prior research (Feldman & Cauffman, 1999; Treas & > Giesen, 2000), having had more prior sex partners predicted future > ESI (pg.12) Maddox Shaw, A. M., Rhoades, G. K., Allen, E. S., Stanley, S. M., & Markman, H. J. (2013). Predictors of Extradyadic Sexual Involvement in Unmarried Opposite-Sex Relationships. Journal of Sex Research, 50(6), 598–610. . > When compared with their peers who report fewer partners, those who > self-report 20 or more in their lifetime are: >  >      * > Twice as likely to have ever been divorced (50 percent vs. 27 > percent) >  >      * > Three times as likely to have cheated while married >  >      * > Substantially less happy with life (p < 0.05) (pg.88-89) Regnerus, M. (2017). Cheap sex: The transformation of men, marriage, and monogamy. . > women who had more experience with short-term relationships in the > past (i.e., those with high Behavior facet scores) were more likely > to have multiple sexual partners and unstable relationships in the > future. The behaviorally expressed level of sociosexuality thus > seems to be a fairly stable personal characteristic. (pg.1131) Penke, L., & Asendorpf, J. B. (2008). Beyond global sociosexual orientations: a more differentiated look at sociosexuality and its effects on courtship and romantic relationships. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 95(5), 1113–1135. . > Generally speaking, respondents who report extensive premarital > sexual experience report extensive extramarital activity. Measures > of the locus of first intercourse and number of premarital partners > show positive associations with (1) rating one's marriage as less > happy than average, (2) the number of different extramarital > partners, and (3) the intention to participate in mate-swapping > activities. (pg.221-222) Athanasiou, R., & Sarkin, R. (1974). Premarital sexual behavior and postmarital adjustment. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 3(3), 207–225. . > The findings from this study demonstrate that the number of sexual > partners participants had was negatively associated with sexual > quality, communication, and relationship stability, and for one age > cohort relationship satisfaction, even when controlling for a wide > range of variables including education, religiosity, and > relationship length. (pg.715) Busby, D. M., Willoughby, B. J., & Carroll, J. S. (2013). Sowing wild oats: Valuable experience or a field full of weeds? Personal Relationships, 20(4), 706–718. . > As predicted, such factors as sexual permissiveness, an avoidant > romantic style, number of romantic relationships, and early onset of > sexual intercourse were all correlated with a higher incidence of > betrayal behaviors. These factors are likely to promote sexual > activity with a larger number of partners, which, in turn, increases > the chance that betrayal will occur. (pg.247) Feldman, S. S., & Cauffman, E. (1999). Your cheatin' heart: Attitudes, behaviors, and correlates of sexual betrayal in late adolescents. Journal of Research on Adolescence, 9(3), 227–252. . > There was a strong association between number of sexual partners and > having an STD: those women with 5 or more sexual partners were 8 > times more likely to report having an STD than those with only 1 > partner, even after adjusting for age at first intercourse Joffe, G. P., Foxman, B., Schmidt, A. J., Farris, K. B., Carter, R. J., Neumann, S., Tolo, K. A., & Walters, A. M. (1992). Multiple partners and partner choice as risk factors for sexually transmitted disease among female college students. Sexually transmitted diseases, 19(5), 272–278. > An indicator of whether or not the respondent has had previous sex > partners is included and identifies the number of male sex partners > the woman had previous to her relationship with her current primary > partner… A history of numerous sex partners indicates a pattern or > habit of sexual behavior that we expect will negatively influence > sexual exclusivity in the current relationship. (pg.37) >  > Having previous sexual partners greatly increased the likelihood > that a woman would have a secondary sex partner. In particular, a > woman with 4 or more male sex partners prior to her primary > relationship was about 8.5 times more likely to have a secondary sex > partnerthan a woman with no previous sex partners… Having previous > sex partners also increased the likelihood that dating and married > women would have secondary sex partners. In particular, married > women with 4 or more previous partners were 20 times more likely to > have secondary sex partners than married women with no previous sex > partners (pg.41) Forste, R., & Tanfer, K. (1996). Sexual exclusivity among dating, cohabiting, and married women. Journal of Marriage and the Family, 58(1), 33–47. ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/post/1139556