Just joined. Please help diagnose my case. 3 upvotes | November 2, 2013 | by Spiritualpha ------------------------- I have recently just got involved into a somewhat serious relationship with a girl 2 yrs younger than me (I'm 19) who's not controlling but is pretty cold. I act like I am the prize and it really feels it's a war for control. I know she cares about me, but doesn't seem to show, and I don't care much about that but I'm just curious if you guys can help me understand what's going on. I have been 2 months deep into seddit and TRP and nothing has ever been so clear to me. Besides that I used to close pretty easily even before (... speaking about religion, art, philosophy and so on. Go figure). As for my gf, now I just keep it to a banter level, waiting for you guys to give me some advice. I'm great on the speaking but suck on the keeping: one night stands flow easily but holding a relationship has never worked for me.. That means I have always had clingy girls who could do my insecurity. I got into a relationship also to train myself. Now confidence has overtaken the old me and I'm like a blank paper, needing directions. TL;DR: make me swallow that red pill already for I need it badly to have a good relationship with my gf. I'm no beta so everything is accepted. ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/post/138434