Help... Shit Test? Comfort Test?
8 upvotes | September 18, 2017 | by Jay_Jay_C
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Firstly, I have A LOT to learn. I came across RP only one week ago. My
wife has threatened to leave many times before and I accept this is
down to my Beta pussy ass tendencies. However, I was not always like
that - marriage and kids have grinded me down. I'm good looking, great
job, great dad and keep pretty fit although over the past few years I
have let myself go a bit and developed a bit of a belly. Coincidently,
I started getting my shit together a fews weeks before discovering RP
and have been lifting furiously. I come from a kickboxing background
so I can get fit quickly if needed. Sex four times this year so far
and I have had meltdowns and exposed myself on occasions when she's
threatened to leave and I've went begging. She's attractive as fuck
and I've been guilty of constantly reminding her of this over the
years.

So I discover RP last week..... OMFG I can't believe what I'm reading.
Everything makes so much sense and my eyes have been opened. I've
started indulging in the side bar and now I have a solid plan to
become a fucking man again.

The past week she has been on her period. Just in time for me
discovering RP. So over the weekend I start DNGAF and focus on me and
my new mission. I notice all these shit tests coming thick and fast,
however as a newbie I'm not confident enough to pass them. Usually
when she starts unloading on me I always take the bait - I ALWAYS
argue back and it all kicks off. This weekend I decided just to listen
to her and then just STFU and focus on something else like playing
with the kids. Wow, she huffed and puffed, I think frustrated at the
lack of retaliation from me. I knew she could sense something had
changed all of a sudden.

This morning I receive a text saying she is still not happy and I've
to spend the rest of the week 'thinking about us' because she cant go
on like this and that she's due to leave.

Advice? At this point I have just ignored the text. Have I rushed in
too quick with DNGAF and distancing myself, STFU and focusing on me
and not giving her the usual needy attention I would.

What do I do?
 
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