How do I know if I'm on the right track with all of this? 10 upvotes | August 8, 2017 | by beta-to-boss ------------------------- I'm still learning and reading the side bar. And I don't want to rely on asking tons of questions everyday. I want to figure this out on my own. But I'm wondering how do I know if I'm doing things the right way or not? If I'm getting sex? My relationship isn't bad but I want to be a better leader and make it even better. I get confused when to do a lot of things such as agree and amplify. Ignore. Shut the fuck Up. If I'm DEERing. If it's okay to deer when I'm wrong. etc. I'm a perfectionist so that makes this shit very stressful. Idk if I'm handling things good or really wrong. Without posting and asking all the time. Is there a way I can figure this out on my own but have a guide point to know if I'm doing things the right way. Or if they can be done differently. Or better? ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/post/205706