Shit test passed...and I love her more???
16 upvotes | July 14, 2017 | by RedishPill
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So my woman is leaving on a trip this weekend (left this morning
actually), and was doing some packing last night. One of her 'tasks'
was to create a music playlist on her phone using spotify for her
girls trip. I tried to lay down with her for a bit after dinner and
before the gym, but she was on her phone so I left to do some chores.
I cam back 30 min later and she's still on her phone. I tell her to
get ready for the gym as I change in front of her and she says "I'm
almost done" (she was already in her gym clothes). I let her know
she's been working on this for 30 min, and that we need to go to the
gym. I go to the door, put my shoes on, grab my stuff and yell "I'll
see you at the gym". She says "Just give me more time!". So I walk to
the bathroom, have a pee, see her still sitting on the bed on her
phone, so I walk out of the house and go to the car. She opens the
window to say that "I can wait for her" or something along those lines
so I chuckle and give her a "Chop chop!". I get in the car. I start
the car. I sit in the car for 3 min (I know this because I was staring
at the clock aha) and then I drove away.

I get a text while I'm in the gym parking lot about how she's pissed I
left her, I'm a shitty person for starting a fight the night before
she leaves, and a "See how well this works for you!". I text her back
that I would love it if she joined me at the gym, and that we're doing
legs! (It's her favourite). Then I put my phone away and go work out.
Now, I'll be honest, I wasn't feeling the greatest in the gym at
first, but the longer I was in there, I just started to feel good
about setting a boundary (When I say I'm going, I'm going) and I felt
like a man who was operating from his own frame and, surprisingly, I
WASN'T MAD AT HER?! I felt so good, that I was actually happy to go
home and be with my woman after I was done in the gym, despite the
events of the last two hours. Normally I mentally hate her for a few
hours after we fight or something, but this time felt much different.

When I got home I pretended as if nothing had happened, talked about
my sore legs, and for the most part she was talkative and normal,
though you could tell she wasn't 100%. When she mentioned me leaving
her in non-direct ways, why am I so mean to her, I just ignored her
etc. I made mention of "Maybe you'll move a little quicker next time"
ONCE when she asked me directly about it, but that was it. Then I
boned her twice this morning before she left for her trip.

So....is this "I feel good" thing from operating in my own frame?
Because I like it, and it's the first time she's gotten angry and my
response wasn't anger and thoughts of "Why am I with you?".
 
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