Question about OYS, STFU and not talking about fight club. 5 upvotes | May 15, 2017 | by rejonkulous ------------------------- Noob here with some questions. Been reading and lifting since January. About halfway done with required reading (although I will be rereading most of them to help internalize the messages). My question comes from a recent talk with my ltr. About a month or 2 ago she noticed my bettering myself, and she started to worry about if my improvements would lead me to leave her. With this thought she started going through my reddit post history and then the questions started about trp and mrp. I admit at first I did DEER a bit. But then just STFU. I am attempting to own my shit and hold myself accountable; however I am apprehensive about posting on reddit for questions or FR because I know she is looking. My question is should I just create a new user id (this seems to be running from or hiding the issue) or should I just NGAF. I don't want t ok talk about fight club. Anyway off to go lift. ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/post/206148