Did I handle this right? What would have been better? 9 upvotes | April 25, 2017 | by hellome99 ------------------------- Wife and I were hosting a family BBQ since the weather has gotten better in the Midwest. I was grilling and my wife was making the side dishes. She is a perfectionist when it comes to hosting family outings/family coming over. She starts scanning our inventory and is upset to see we don't have any poppy seed buns. I laughed it off and mentioned how her family is getting a free meal so they'll have to deal with it. Que to her getting pissy and asking me to run to the store and grab them. I refused and then she got even more pissed. Complaining about how it's such a simple task, I responded with that she should have no problem doing it then. She did do it, then proceeded to act cold to me the whole time and tried to let me have it when we went to sleep. I STFU'd and said hope she enjoyed the BBQ, kissed her cheek and went to sleep. Well today she has texted me and told me she doesn't appreciate not doing this one favor for her and that she's still upset over it. Keep in mind I was still not done preparing the food and did not see a need for some damn poppy seed buns. I believe it was a shit test. My biggest problem pre-rp was doing stuff for her on demand, I have stopped that to a large degree and she said she's sick of me acting like a jerk lately. ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/post/206240