Worried about wife's depression
8 upvotes | March 23, 2017 | by qovnowon
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Discovered red pill: 1 year ago Sidebar: nearly all, many items
multiple times Lifting: Off and on due to injuries, no real progress
Ages: me 42, wife 40 Married: 18 yrs. Kids: 0

I have been applying MRP concepts to my marriage for a while now and I
see some significant improvements but I just don't think she can ever
become the person I want her to be. I know that continuing through the
dread levels can improve things, but there are just too many things
that would have to radically change for me to really be attracted to
her and to desire spending time with her.

The problem is that I am worried that if I decide to divorce that she
will slip back into a deep depression. She has had this happen twice
before and is on anti-depressants. I know that she would be an
absolute wreck without me and I'm even worried that she may be a
danger to herself. I do care about her; she is a kind person with a
good heart and I would feel terrible guilt if her life was destroyed
after I left.

Has anyone felt the same way? I appreciate any ideas or new
perspectives for me to consider.
 
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