Update on my frame RE: parade
7 upvotes | March 16, 2017 | by prarrott
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It went down pretty much exactly as I suspected it would. I told her
last night that I arranged for our neighbor to come babysit the kids,
and we are going to the parade together.

H: I'm not interested, I dont want to go, etc

M: _with a smile_ dont forget to wear your green. Be ready around
10:30

H: No thanks, cancel the babysitter, etc

M: STFU

We dont talk any the rest of the night, she watches tv in the other
room. Today she sends me a text. I have been avoiding meaningful
conversations ocer text for some time now, and I know I should not
have engaged this text, but I just wanted to get this fucking over
with.

H: Make sure you cancel that sitter. Don't want them to linger when
they could make plans for themselves.

M: I'm going to the parade, and I hope that you'll join me. If you
want to cancel the sitter, that's on you.

H: Actually u hired, u cancel. And you're not going to leave me with
kids so u can go party.

M: I lined up the babysitter so we could spend time together. I'm not
going to cancel it. The babysitter is coming, and I'm going to the
parade, and I hope you'll join me and we can spend some time together.

H: I wouldn't join you if my life depended on it after the things
you've said and done.

H: I'll just cancel for you. It's _neighbor_, right?

M: Yes

I have no clue to what exactly she's referring to on the "things I've
said and done". Body of work maybe ... ? Whatever.

I think that now I'm going to bring my two older kids because I love
them, they love a parade, and that's what I want to do.

I'm really battling to put my anger to bed, but interactions like this
make it really fucking hard. I'm just so angry she has to make life so
difficult for no fuckkng reason. / puke
 
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