New or Newish to MRP? Frustrated? Here is a flowchart to troubleshoot ... 22 upvotes | February 15, 2017 | by mrprider ------------------------- I had a flowchart image but cannot get imgur to work, so here is a text flowchart ... Edit: Imgur Link [http://imgur.com/a/cDkiv] START - I AM UNHAPPY IN MY MARRIAGE #1 Do you have ALL aspects of your life on improvement trajectory ? A) Career & Personal Finance B) Leading Family, and being Fun C) Physical fitness and Meditation If your answer is No? Go to #7; else proceed down. #2 Are you observing progress? With more focus on weakest areas while milking the best areas as much as possible? If your answer is No? Go to #7; else proceed down. #3 Have you given at least 1 month per year of relationship to improvement already? Ex: 7 years of marriage => Min 7 months of continuous progress on all fronts If your answer is No? Go to #7; else proceed down. #4 At the start of this relationship, were you the AF? Or you started off as a BB provider? If your answer is AF? Go to #7; else proceed down. #5 This is the hardest relationship to turn around. If you were to be single right now, could you get laid in next 24 hours, with a woman of equal or higher SMV than your SO? (Basically, Are you hot, attractive and fun to be around?) If your answer is No, Go to #7; else proceed down. #6 Quit and file for divorce #7 a. Lift b. Read c. Plan d. Track Now, I don't claim to know everything there is. But hopefully this helps someone. Veteran MRP people like bogeyd and stone might remember me, and I owe them an update on my situation. That will be a separate thread, soon. In short, I am at #5 and almost ready to smoothly hop over to #6. ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/post/206512