So she called police today
6 upvotes | August 1, 2016 | by chiefjohnwatts1790
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Update: I consulted with two lawyers and went ahead and started the
ball rolling. The female attorney that I went with is drafting up the
filing and should have it to me tomorrow. She noted that it would take
criminal charges to remove me from the house but that a temporary
order could be used to remove me temporarily. Those are heard by the
courts quickly. Also listed the house with a real estate agent.

Tl;dr at the bottom...

More victim puke...And I'm totally embarrassed.

I had been busy all morning doing my thing. I worked out at my usual
6:30am then came home and had a high protein breakfast. I piddled
around for a few hours and washed my car. After coming in from doing
that jump in the shower. She's still asleep at 11:30am, which is very
common for her.

When I finish my shower and put my underwear on, I step out to get the
rest of my clothes. She's finally awake and my kid is bringing her
morning coffee to her. (beta me use to do that but since our marriage
has been on the rocks I stopped

I ate lunch and then grabbed my phone to take a break on the living
room sofa. My kid and my wife started off discussing that school was
about to start on Wednesday and my son's last day on his summer job
would be Monday.

My kid evidently had an agreement with my wife, unbeknownst to me,
that Monday would be the last day on the job. Evidently when he turned
his notice in he messed up and told them Tuesday. She totally flips
out with her usual victimhood crap. "You people never listen to me" ,
"You're gonna regret when it's just you and your daddy living here
without me." My son speaks up and pleads with her not to be mad at
him. Of course I'm trying to get my son's attention and to tell him to
stfu. Not because of what she said but because he was making it worse
by groveling to her.

At this point I'm beyond irritated. She keeps saying how we've made
her the way she is and that her doctor and psychiatrist can vouch for
her "it's all documented" I'd heard and had enough and I firmly tell
her that she needs to drop the victimhood crap that she wields like a
sword. I told her that she was responsible for many things too with
our failed marriage but she would never admit any wrongs. I also told
he she is responsible for her emotions.

At this point she starts bringing up all of my past deeds and one that
she's been holding onto for two years. I told her that I'm not perfect
and never will be but she has to let that shit die. I also told her
that she has lost all of her friends because she takes everything
personal. At this point she asks me to leave. I told her no. She said
she would call the police and have me put out if I didn't leave. She
says her doctors told her she could do that. I told her for physical
abuse not for spousal problems.

So two police officers roll up and she runs out the door pleading with
them to make me leave and that I was emotionally abusing her. I step
outside and one of the officers politely asks me to step back inside.
I comply.

After they are finished with hearing what she has to say I step
outside, apologize for her calling them out, and explain my side of
the story. They pretty much tell me that "she needs help" and they
can't make me leave but maybe I could leave for a few hours and come
back later. I agree to that but tell them that I have no place to
leave permanently to. They leave my wife with some information on
domestic abuse and hotlines numbers of she needs help. The officer
warns me that it better not get physical. I kinda giggle and tell them
I have no desire to go to jail and would never and have never would
physically harmed her. I again apologise and tell them I was sorry
they were called out to mediate a discussion.

They leave and she's even more pissed. She asks if I can go stay at
friends apartment. I call him and tell him the situation. He says
loudly over the phone which she heard. "I'm not going give her an out
to throw you on the street. Don't leave." Of course she starts
bringing up other relatives that I could stay with but I refuse to
impose on them.

During all this, even while the officers were at my house, she's
telling my son that I'm causing all this and that if I didn't leave
she would. My son begins to cry at which point I tell her to leave him
alone and keep him out of it. She keeps asking him if he was going
with her or staying. I told her to stop and that she was welcome to
leave but not to force this shit in my son.

So she packs her suit cases and about hour later she's out the door to
stay with a parent. My son begrudgingly goes too. I told him to call
if he wanted me to get him.

My plan tomorrow is to contact an attorney and a real estate agent.
I'm done with the craziness.

During all this I remained very stoic and also used a lot from
WISNIFG. I told her several times that no one was forcing her to stay.
Me reacting with idgf seemed to make her furious. Beta me would have
probably left. Beta me would have cried and plead with her to calm
down and admit I was the reason for her melt down. I did tear up while
I was talking to the police because of the turmoil it was causing for
my son. She can kick me all she wants, leave him the fuck alone.

Right now I am at complete peace with myself. She on the other hand
seems out of control and bat shit crazy. My child is my main concern.

Luckily the parent she is staying at knows the situation. If she
wasn't going there I would have demanded my kid stay.

Now isn't this some shit????

tl;dr Wife flips out during a discussion at which I point out her
flaws and tell her she needs to get her shit together. She calls the
police. Police came and basically tells me she needs help. She was
acting on instructions of her psychiatrist. Police are sympathetic to
her and my problem. Wife pleads for me to leave. I stay, she goes with
my kid in tow.
 
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