Talk to me about "The Wall."
7 upvotes | June 3, 2016 | by SuggestedRP
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Cross posted to /r/asktrp but I got a few messages suggesting I try
MRP for more LTR minded advice.

Quick background: private pilot (think glorified cab driver for those
with the means). Keeps me VERY busy, so it's really only in the past
few years I've slowed down and thought about having a family. Being a
pilot, owning jets, and being decent enough looking means plates are
not a problem - but the truth of it is I've been bored with that kind
of women for a long time. I just turned 41.

A number of months ago one of my regular clients was flying. I'm at
the FBO with his crew when he comes rolling up with this woman in his
car. His guys all start grinning and going on about her, they're all
trying to figure out if she's Evan's friend or something more. She's
pretty goddamned gorgeous so I have to say I'm curious too.

We fly a few more times together and I find out a little more about
her - sold her business, moved back into the area, wicked smart and
that's a turn on for me. I decide no pussy footing around and ask Evan
what the deal is between them so I can proceed or not. I don't want to
step on his toes, I like the guy. He gives me the green light, says
he'd love to go there with her but, no, they both want different
things out of a relationship, he's much older, whatever, I've got the
go ahead.

I take her flying, we pheasant hunt together, have dinner, a number of
really great dates. It takes a bit longer than I'm used to, but we
sleep together after awhile and that's phenomenal too. I was starting
to think she wasn't interested physically despite her being touchy
feely (used to faster paced girls, I suppose), but once she decided
she was down it's been nicely nonstop. When I'm gone overnight she now
stops at my place and finishes up my laundry, puts a meal to be
reheated in the fridge or crockpot, cleans up, just something to be
nice.

I've tried to be realistic in my thinking, I don't want to be struck
with severe one-itis, but I wonder now if in an attempt to be
realistic I'm just psyching myself out. So, I'm here to share my
"concerns" and see what you guys think. When I first met her I thought
she was mid to late twenties, appearance wise. She's 35. Yay that
she's an awesome looking 35, obviously takes care of herself, but
wall? I don't have any reason to believe she was some crazy ass hooker
in her youth and is trying to change her ways, but I do wonder why no
one has pulled her off the market yet. Evan described her as not
really being interested in dating, really independent, but despite the
fact that I can see what he was saying and I've seen that side of her,
she's also very gentle and submissive and feminine around me.

What do I need to be wary of here, guys? Or am I overthinking a good
thing?
 
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