Thanks and Progress Report
9 upvotes | March 20, 2016 | by Alpha-Gator
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Hello gentlemen, I've never introduced myself so I'd like to do so
now. I'm a 25yo veteran, married to my high-school sweetheart for 8
years in July. After we moved in together and had our first of two
kids, the shit-testing and the downward slide of our sex life started.

In 2012 while we were living apart after my deployment (it didn't make
sense to move her out for 4 months) I openly cheated on her several
times, and I believe she cheated although she never confessed to it.

I started MRP about a year ago, and it was tremendously slow-going. I
was going to school on military benefits and not working, so I felt
completely useless and emasculated. When I started implementing MRP, I
didn't get results until I started dressing up and going out on my own
when my wife was a bitch.

Now, I've started a new high-paying job with plenty of potential and a
new sense of a mission in my life. I run my home like it is my castle,
and my wife is finally following along of her own accord. She's
started making lunch for me, ironing my clothes, and all the other
"domestic wife" things I never would have imagined her doing without
my asking.

And the really amazing part is... I'VE NEVER SEEN HER HAPPIER.

The cheating will always be in our pasts, and there's nothing that can
be done about it. Many on MRP believe that cheating is the end of the
relationship, but with young kids and the possibility of a devastating
divorce I figured giving it a year was worth it. And it was. She has
never appeared to be more dedicated and loyal to me and my mission.

Yesterday after a daytime quickie (I come home for "lunch" a few days
a week) she completely surprised me by apologizing for not having been
enthusiastic when having sex, and reciting a list of things she had in
mind. I winked, smacked her ass, and said "then I guess I'll see"
before heading back to work.

My lifts aren't where I want them, and my wardrobe doesn't include
everything I'd like. I still need to work on game, and how to more
aptly apply AA & AM. The most awesome version of myself is starting to
show through, and I'm both excited and anxious for the continuing
improvement process.

Thanks for everything MRP; now that I've applied the strategy and
introduced myself here on AskMRP, I'd like to spend time answering and
helping to guide other men on their journey. Teaching, I have found,
is always the best way to learn.

Gator
 
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