Critique my handling of ‘the talk’
142 upvotes | February 10, 2019 | by bruiser18
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Currently spinning 2 plates, only interested in promoting one of them
and this isn’t her (she’s fucking other guys, no thanks). I told
her before she is free to fuck whoever she wants and I won’t look
for anything serious, she must have had a change of heart.

I invited her over to my house, we watched Netflix and fucked. While
we’re laying there she brings up ‘the talk’...

Her: “my friends always ask me what we are”

Me: “that’s very cute”

Her: “I don’t know what to tell them though”

Me: “tell them to piss off” _smile_

Her: “nooo... I don’t want to be just another girl you’re
fucking”

Me: I laugh and say “really? That’s sweet, I bet you say that to
all the girls”

Her: “I’m serious....”

Me: “okay well I understand, and I told you before, I’m not gonna
take things further with a girl who’s seeing other guys. What you do
is your business and I’m cool with it, but we’re just having
fun”

Her: “I haven’t fucked anyone else in months! I want to take
things further with you”

Me: “alright tell you what, because you’re such a cutie, you show
me your best good girl behavior for a while, and then I’ll think
about it... I’m just not sure you have what it takes”

Her: “I do, I do! I am a good girl”

From what I see it went well. I held frame, established my
expectations and made her qualify herself, all while keeping it light
hearted and humorous. But I’d like to know what TRP thinks. Anything
you’d do different? Let me know. Thanks.

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