How do I respond to "Would you still love me if I was fat?"
13 upvotes | May 2, 2019 | by skip_legday
-------------------------
My wife (25) hit me (29) up with that a couple of days ago.

She basically asked me how important looks are for me because beauty
will eventually fade and she does not care about looks (bullshit).

I mean, she is right, she wont look good with 60. But she can
definately look good with 40-50.

I responded with something like "Of course personality makes you love
someone but you also need looks to be attracted to that person,"

I hardly doubt that she would give me the same affection if I would
gain 100 pounds. How would you respond to that without saying "Yes,
your beta husband will love you whatever you do." Or do I just say
"yes you are right" because I will keep working on my SMV anyway and
she will have to keep up.

-------------------------
Archived from https://theredarchive.com/post/236897