Young guy, no sexual desire, someone give me some insight
61 upvotes | May 24, 2019 | by overcomplicate
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This is not the sub I wanted to ask this on but It’s been removed
from several subs and I need advice by tonight, if you fellas can’t
help that’s okay , I can’t post with a throwaway here so people i
know will see this but fuck it at this point.

Here’s my situation, I’ve been out of a relationship for like 6
months now, in the last 4 months I’ve met and lost several different
people I was interested in because I could not fuck them.

I am only 21 and it was really surprising the first time because it
had never happened before, and since that first failure 4ish months
ago I’ve tried to fix this by completely not looking at porn, taking
vitamins and eating healthier, and working out, I’ve maintained all
of this for several months because it does make me feel healthy and
better but it does not help me get hard still.

I’ve been able to have sex 3 times and I was on some recreational
drugs every single time and that’s the only reason. My problem
isn’t with actually getting blood to my dick I’m just not
interested in sex, I haven’t felt ‘horny’ without being on Xanax
in months (I don’t use it a lot don’t worry). I find the girl
attractive but I have no desire to escalate, and when I force myself
to my mind wanders off to something else and I can’t get hard
because I’m on autopilot and not into what’s happening.

What can I do here? I actually had blood and urine work done recently
for another reason and I asked them to confirm my testosterone was
normal and it is.

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