Lingering feelings for ex-LTR despite fucking other girls
5 upvotes | July 10, 2019 | by mountainbiker178
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It's been 4 months since I broke up with my LTR of 3 years, because
she crossed some boundaries. Additionally, she wanted marriage and I
didn't, so I thought I should let her go to find a beta. Fyi, we're
both 42, divorced with kids.

Since the breakup, I've fucked 5 girls, following the GFTOG advice (go
fuck ten other girls). I've turned 3 of them into plates or fwb.

The problem I'm having is that, if I'm honest, I still kind of have
oneitis or something. My mind keeps going back to all the good stuff
(ignoring the bad stuff). I was hoping that all the sex I'm having
with other girls would nuke those feelings, but it's not working
(yet?).

An I just being impatient and there's really something magical about
the number 10 in the GFTOG advice?

Is the only way to truly get rid of these feelings by getting into
another LTR, thereby replacing the old feelings with new ones?

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