How to deal with sexual urge? 11 upvotes | July 22, 2019 | by Gonnaroff ------------------------- My biggest issue is that I’d like to stop wanting my wife sexually until I’ve actually transformed myself. This is due to me actually wanting to be desired, which doesn’t happen. I however don’t seem to be able to get it under control and just laying next to her after a couple of nights drives me crazy and then my whole life gets affected by this. I yell at the kids, I’m short with her and an overall miserable loser until we fucked. Pathetic. Is this normal? How to deal with this? ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/post/246292